Do you feel always judged?

[jiujitsu92]

Do you feel like your always juged by others negatively? Like non-stop every time with other? Second guessing every thing you say, feel inferior to everybody? Think that they see you inferior? Without reason( seriously I don't even know why I feel like that, there no logic).

Do you have difficulty concentrate on life and discussion just because of that? Does that depressed you?

And say to yourself you dont give a crap about what they think don't change nothing?

Am I schyzo?

 

[Sial Axetder]

Do you feel like your always juged by others negatively? Like non-stop every time with other? Second guessing every thing you say, feel inferior to everybody? Think that they see you inferior? Without reason( seriously I don't even know why I feel like that, there no logic).

Do you have difficulty concentrate on life and discussion just because of that? Does that depressed you?

And say to yourself you dont give a crap about what they think don't change nothing?

Am I schyzo?

Are you a schyzo? Don't know. Don't know you.

Being judged? Not all the time. Only when others are near and talk queitly about something. It's about me! Paranoid, know it, can deal with it.

Difficulties dicussing, how about socializing?
In Socialworld, yes. Attention is paid much to everything, not to what's being said. Lots of head nodding, looks like it is understood. Don't forget to pick out a few words to offer minor counters or questions.

Does any of this make me depressed? Not this stuff. Dealing with it a long time.

Question: is the glass half full or half empty?

 

[SilverFire]

I do from time to time, yeah, but I think it's just my own bad attitude mixed with an odd kind of self-worship. Am I REALLY that good at reading others' intentions? Uhm, no, but it's easier to justify my own avoidant nature if I let myself think that everyone is judging me.

 

[jiujitsu92]

"but it's easier to justify my own avoidant nature if I let myself think that everyone is judging me"

that make sense yeah, never think of that before.

 

[agoraphobickatie]

i don't know how often i feel judged, but i know i hardly ever let it get to me.. people are always going to think something about you, whether it be good or bad, it's just human nature... and i certainly don't think it's uncommon for you to feel the way that you do. most people are at least a little bothered by what others think.. i don't know how i got to be the way that i am. i guess it's because i'm very secure with myself as a person. i like who i am. the only thing i don't like is my appearance. and i feel like if anyone has anything to say negatively about my appearance, then it would never be worse than what i've already thought about myself, ya know? it's kind of like "you can't think worse of my appearance than i already do" so it doesn't bother me if people may think i look bad, lol... like i said though, as far as my personality and all, i'm very secure and proud of who i am, so if anyone has anything bad to say or think about it, i just have a "whatever, your loss.." attitude about it.. i wish i could share how i became this way, because i know a lot of things really get to other people and it hurts them, i just don't let sh!t get to me very often.. ::shrug::

 

[IamThisOne]

Yes, all the time I usually think people are judging me. I feel very inferior to everyone.

 

[Luna1740]

I feel like everyone is judging me, but it causes me to look down on them as opposed to the feeling of being looked down upon, and causes me to want to lash out against them, which my ocd then spins downward until i can't do anything buy lay in bed all day

 

[fitftw]

Luna, same here. I feel bad for most people for that reason, but I'm far from violent. Still, it's hard to make lasting friendships/relationships with anyone.

 

[Helmaninquiel]

Do you feel like your always judged by others negatively? Like non-stop every time with other? Second guessing every thing you say, feel inferior to everybody? Think that they see you inferior? Without reason( seriously I don't even know why I feel like that, there no logic).

Do you have difficulty concentrate on life and discussion just because of that? Does that depressed you?

And say to yourself you dont give a crap about what they think don't change nothing?

Am I schyzo?

Yes, yes I really do.

 

[danyule]

Yeah, im always feeling inferior to other people and it makes me incredibly depressed.
mostly when im out with friends, and i see how easily they converse with girls and other people and hink of how ill never be able to be like that

 

[HeadFace]

Do you feel like your always juged by others negatively? Like non-stop every time with other? Second guessing every thing you say, feel inferior to everybody? Think that they see you inferior? Without reason( seriously I don't even know why I feel like that, there no logic).

Do you have difficulty concentrate on life and discussion just because of that? Does that depressed you?

And say to yourself you dont give a crap about what they think don't change nothing?

Am I schyzo?

I agree with everything in the first part (I have no idea if you're schyzo though)
I feel like everyone judges me. No exceptions. It's ridiculous... But it's the mindset I'm trapped in.
Though... Diffficulty concentrating on life and whatnot just because of it?
Not really... It kind of effects me when I'm at school, going out for walks, at the store... Just small tasks. It doesn't effect the way I treat my actual friends, or change the way I do certain things.

And I always try to convince myself that I shouldnt give a crap what others think... It's not exactly working out though

 

[Fear of people]

Do you feel like your always juged by others negatively? Like non-stop every time with other? Second guessing every thing you say, feel inferior to everybody? Think that they see you inferior? Without reason( seriously I don't even know why I feel like that, there no logic).

Do you have difficulty concentrate on life and discussion just because of that? Does that depressed you?

And say to yourself you dont give a crap about what they think don't change nothing?

Am I schyzo?

I feel as though people are judging me every time I leave my house e.t.c.
I feel people are staring at me all the time...when ever I'm out in public, because I am short and I don't feel good about myself because of this...I have always' had an inferior complex about my height...since being a child and I dislike tall people...tall people seem to be more confident and out going...compared to their shorter counterparts...tall people come across to me as dominent and I feel judged due to my height almost every day.

 

[Kiwong]

Without doubt. And with my particularly virulent form of anxiety that negative judgement is very real.

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

I try to remember that I can't read minds and that I shouldn't jump to conclusions. If I'm going to make up my mind that someone is judging me negatively then I want to have a good reason for it. For instance, if someone gives me a dirty look or says something mean.... a woman I met the other night called me a "skinny bitch", and I'm proud of myself for not being hurt or scared off by her comment. She first told me that she thought I was pretty, so I suppose she may have felt awkward about that so she had to say something catty in order to even things out...which made things awkward for the people around us. lol I am skinny and I can be a bitch and I don't mind most of the time so even if she judges me as such, I don't mind. I can't exactly say that her judgment is inaccurate.

 

[AnxietyDave]

I try my best not to judge others or let their judging me affect me, I can only take responsibility for my own thoughts, decisions and actions and that takes up enough of my time to prevent me from wasting time on judging others or letting the way they judge me affect me.

I personally believe that I can only have an effect on my own being and whether or not I judge someone else or not, it is going to have absolutely no effect on the way in which they choose to act in any case so what is the point.

The moment I started thinking this way, was the moment that the judgment others dealt me made a lot less difference and no longer had the power to have a negative effect in my life. Well that is my take on things anyway.

 

[R3X]

Every single time..
doesn't matter who,young or old,men or women...i ALWAYS feel judged by others..it sucks...it's like you're subconciously thinking of how the other person is thinking negatively about you like "man,this guy is weird" or "what's wrong with this guy?"...it really get's you're confidence low you know...i guess it's a mix of inferiority complex and just being paranoid...i dunno...i tried the "think-positive" thing and yeah,it worked....for awhile,but the thing is,it's still there..i guess you should just try to think positive even if in your head you're thinking negatively..i'm still in the process of changing though...dunno how long it'll take..::

 

[lyricalliaisons]

No, not at all in my case. But that's basically the clinical definition of SA, so most people here can probably totally relate to that. The only time I really feel judged are by people who know me: family members, etc. They know how inexperienced I am & don't understand my issues, so they are very judgmental of me because of it.

 

[scaredsilly]

I often feel like people are judging me and I have never been tested for schizophrenia. I do think it is natural to think people are judging you though -- we all want to feel like we belong and are accepted, and getting approval from others is part of this process.

I don't know, though. Sometimes I feel like I am walking around in the dark and I need a Flashlightz to get me through it.

 

[Fear of people]

Every single time..
doesn't matter who,young or old,men or women...i ALWAYS feel judged by others..it sucks...it's like you're subconciously thinking of how the other person is thinking negatively about you like "man,this guy is weird" or "what's wrong with this guy?"...it really get's you're confidence low you know...i guess it's a mix of inferiority complex and just being paranoid...i dunno...i tried the "think-positive" thing and yeah,it worked....for awhile,but the thing is,it's still there..i guess you should just try to think positive even if in your head you're thinking negatively..i'm still in the process of changing though...dunno how long it'll take..::

I know how you feel...because I feel the same way as you. I can't even collect the mail or take the garbage out...with out feeling that my neighbours are watching and judging me negatively e.t.c...my height (OMG isn't she short for an adult) and the clothes that I wear or my hair looks untidy.
Before I even venture outside my house...I have to make sure that I'm wearing something nice and that my hair is neat and tidy...other wise I believe, I am being judged negatively. I know that I have a problem...how ever...I am to ashamed and embarrassed to seek professional help.::

 

[BlueDays]

...i tried the "think-positive" thing and yeah,it worked....for awhile,but the thing is,it's still there..i guess you should just try to think positive even if in your head you're thinking negatively..i'm still in the process of changing though...dunno how long it'll take..::

^This! The trying to think positively worked for about 3 hours for me, then wore off!....I wonder how can I embed a postive thought in my brain, when I don't believe it?
For me feeling like I am always being judged is like a light switch that is permanently stuck in the "On" position.