CherryPepper
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Going through it right now. He knows I like him and he gives me mixed signals, so I can't seem to move on.
Going through it right now. He knows I like him and he gives me mixed signals, so I can't seem to move on.
Uff, those guys are the worst. He's in it for the fun I think. Approach him? Ask him what he thinks?
Or wait it out just don't hold yourself back.
Pretty sure I send mixed signals myself, not because I'm in it for the fun but because I have no idea what I'm doing.
Yeah, I got that from a few girls in my past. It's not a good thing because you get too hung up!Going through it right now. He knows I like him and he gives me mixed signals, so I can't seem to move on.
I used to have a crush on this one guy. Would see him every day. If I smiled at him, he smiled at me. If I laughed, he laughed. In fact, everything I did, he would do right back. For awhile I thought he was mocking me! But then I realized I was looking at myself in a mirror. Since that realization, he and I have consummated the relationship. Many times. We're in love.
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Gold! :bigsmile:I used to have a crush on this one guy. Would see him every day. If I smiled at him, he smiled at me. If I laughed, he laughed. In fact, everything I did, he would do right back. For awhile I thought he was mocking me! But then I realized I was looking at myself in a mirror. Since that realization, he and I have consummated the relationship. Many times. We're in love.
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For anyone who has ever obsessed over somebody for years...
When I was in university, there was a guy in a couple of my classes that started talking to me a bit. He was good looking and very intelligent. But I had a boyfriend at the time so I felt really guilty for noticing. It was very awkward talking to him. I didn't talk to a lot of people in my classes so it was nice talking to him. I kinda just wanted to have a friendly conversation but it was uncomfortable since I was attracted to him. I never started the conversation. The next fall we had another class together. I sat in the middle of the back row and he sat at the end of the next row up. I often saw him turning around out of the corner of my eye. I didn't know if he was looking at me or not. I didn't want to read into things too much. I mostly just looked when he wasn't. I think we only actually made eye contact once. We never spoke during that class. About halfway through that term was when my ex and I broke up. I only realized after that I had been unhappy for awhile and that's why I couldn't help noticing someone else. During the next term we didn't have any classes together and I found myself disappointed. But one day he nodded at me as we passed each other in the hall. I smiled back and kept going. I was surprised he acknowledged me. At that point I finally admitted to myself that I had had a crush on him all along. I became obsessed with him, but I was so shy. I saw him around often but could never talk to him. Another year went by and we didn't have any more classes together. We occasionally smiled at each other in passing but never said a word. That was as brave as I ever got.
It has now been four years since I graduated and over six since I first met him. I still can't get him off my mind. It's ridiculous. I get mad at myself and tell myself to forget about him but it doesn't work. I haven't met anyone else to distract me. I could have a hard time dating if the opportunity ever comes up because I'd probably have to really like someone else to take my mind off him. And if I find another crush, it's gonna be the same crap all over again.