iamthenra
Well-known member
I'm 25 and have never even kissed a girl. Obviously, there is something "wrong" with who I am because that clearly isn't normal. Everybody always says "just be yourself," "don't change for anyone," blah blah blah, as if it were some kind of recipe for success. It isn't.
Exactly... Now that I'm 41, and with failing health...nobody wants a broken down old man... Heck, they didn't want me when I was young either...
The reason why these threads exist, is simply because that ladies, whether or not you admit it, you expect the guy to make the first move. That is the socially acceptable thing for the guy to be aggressive and is always expected of us... So if you are a shy guy, and can't make the first move, finding a girl friend will probably never happen. A shy girl on the other hand will get hit on by many guys, and chances are she will get a boy friend... It is what is expected of us... I would rather be a shy girl, than who I am....