Are any of you gay?

da_illest101

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I can look at a guy and say he is good looking and sexy but that's about it. I think every none gay guy can do that, but are too macho to do it in public. Now i'm not gay or bi since I don't dream about guys, nor look for guys in a romantic way. But I can understand why someone could be gay. My dad is anti gay (too old school) but i'm glad is blurry vision didn't cloud mine :D
 
I find it hard to communicate to women on a personal basis after my previous relationship which was short and sweet, but it screwed me up.

I think I've turned bi/gay thanks to my relationship with a women, I find guys easier to talk to and find no bs in the middle of it all.
 

EscapeArtist

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I'm gay and proud. I don't need to test the waters to know it. Although, I do think it's the reason for my social phobia.

So many people say they are uncertain these days about their sexuality, but I feel like that is fear because a gay (or Bi...I guess) person ALWAYS knows.

Woo hoo pride :D
I agree.
 

carecrab

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Bisexual, and i gotta say i think it sucks sometimes. Some people are like 'can't you choose or something?' But hey i don't care, i'm even happy about it (getting more love this way haha) I do prefer woman over men mostly, but that's because i'm often physically more attracted to woman, but emotionally i really couldn't care less, as long as we have a connection-thingy
 

Apotheosis

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Bi with a preference for las chicas bonitas ;)

Edit: In most cases it doesn't even factor into my SA. It's only an issue if I'm attracted to someone and I'm not sure if they feel the same. If someone I'm NOT interested in takes issue with my personal life, there's no reason for it to bother me.
 
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commenter39

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Cool topic! I´m a lezzy, I'm not 100 % sure though, I don't think boys are ew, but a girl can only steal my heart. But I can find boys attractive.
I have a same sex relationship also! :)
People are cool with it, they don't see it as a problem, they accept me :).
Hey Blackpuma, never seen you coming out here, Never knew you were bisexual!
Respect :D

I think it could be hard to be gay in this society, but with the right people you feel good with it :) It's just how other people act on it. My family/friends are OK with it. But some people are just really homophobic. :/

But I'm glad I am this way, it's what i'm borned like =)

Off the topic but i cannot wonder why most of bisexual and lesbien girls are hot. u have an idea?
 

Thundercats

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I'm bi but i've never admitted this to anyone because they wouldn't understand. I have a girlfriend of sorts but she wouldn't react very well if i told her
 

Kathryn.fr

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Well, I'm not gay... but I am transsexual. Mtf, don't really feel like I need an orientation I do like both but that doesn't just make me bi or straight or gay. I mostly like everyone, trans people too.
 

Honda

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Im not gay... I dont find men attractive but sometimes i get weird ideas that intimidate me, especially about a friend.. I even tested myself, tried to watch gay porn which i found not to my taste, so i believe im thinking like this cuz im not having any contact with females... When you're with a girl you feel different but when you're single and i barely was in a relationship along with the sexual frustration and lack of sexual contact with females you get some dark and weird ideas in your head.. At least for me..
 
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nicole1

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I'm straight. I have dated a girl before. It wasn't an experiment. I still like her tons. But about sexuality, I've learned that there's no limits really. You can be attracted to anyone. Even if you're gay, I feel that if the right female/male comes along, you may find you're attracted to them.
But I loooove men.
 

PandaBear

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I'm pretty sure I'm gay. I only get butterflies for girls.


Being gay certainly doesn't help my SA. It makes me even more terrified to open up to people.
 
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Bustn Justin

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Yea, just coming to terms with me being bi. I always liked girls but never gotten anywhere with one. I was called gay in school and messes up my mind on what I want.
I started questioning my sexuality in my early 20s when I was at a prty and a guy came up to me and tried to rape me. As well it seems like guys are more attracted to me and are more open about sex tan girls are.

When I had these feelings for guys I felt nasty and ashamed for having them. For me it would be extremely difficult to open up about being bi since my family doesn't accept that lifestyle and others will assume that I just want to screw anything. For me I just want to be loved for who I am and don't care if its a male or female.
 

Apotheosis

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does wanting to become a female make you gay?

Gender-identity is subjective so it really depends on personal opinion.

Basically, it's up to you.

As far as I'm concerned: if you see yourself as female, then you are female.
 

MollyBeGood

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I think women are beautiful, but I have no interest in a sexual relationship with one b/c I prefer men and male *ahem* parts and being made love to by a man is amazing when it is good it is out of this world, feels like nothing compares to it.
 
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