Am i the only 1 who doesn't go clubbing like most people under 25

Poo_Guru

Poo_Guru

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I dont mind it, it can be ok sometimes. Its not exactly my favourite social activity and I dont think its something I could every weekend but occasionally (and if Im drunk enough) it can be fun.
 
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Illusions

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I actually enjoy clubbing. I think it's fun, mainly because of the dancing. I like the atmosphere in clubs, I don't mind the music, and while I do drink, I make it a point to never get drunk in such places.

I guess I enjoy it because the anxiety I have has to do with communicating with people, not social situations.
 
recluse

recluse

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I find them scary places. I would occassionaly go with some workmates but what i observed that the main type of people there were; Slutty looking young girls, aggressive alpha male types in tight t shirts. Funnily enough me and one other guy would be the last to leave because we's be just stuck in the moment.

I really dislike the whole party scene in general which leaves me pretty lonely as they seem to be the only places people meet.
 
HH

HH

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I went "clubbing" over the weekend for the first time a very, very long time and I might as well have been wearing a t-shirt saying "I don't belong here" :)

I really did feel out of place and very awkward. All the women were getting chatted up, I felt like a freak
 
Jessykins

Jessykins

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I tried going clubbing once but hated it. The music was too loud, too overcrowded, too many drunk people... I'm 21 by the way & prefer to spend my nights watching tv or horror films.
 
Paahi

Paahi

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Never done it. Never will.
You are not missing out, you just enjoy doing other things.
 
sucettes

sucettes

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I feel like such a loser sometimes when I'm home every Friday... Watching movies by myself, drinking by myself.. Talking to myself(?) lol. I don't mind being alone, but I feel very stuck right now. I hate the town I live in and I'm very anxious around the people who live there, hence why I never go out. I do feel like I'm missing out but the thing is I'd never have fun with the people who lives in this town anyway. But if I'd been in the big city I'd like to go out and I find it easier to relax and to talk to people if I don't know them, and if I'm at a place where no one knows who I am it feels better too. It just feels less judgmental, if that makes sense. Clubbing isn't really my thing, I hate the music. But I would like to go to an Irish pub or to a rock bar :D
 
T T T

T T T

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I'm 16, i've never drank alcohol, never smoked, never been to a party or anything like that, and it dosen't bother me in the slightest. :)
 
WeirdyMcGee

WeirdyMcGee

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nah... the only things I feel like I'm missing out on by not going 'clubbing' is getting date raped by skeezy guys.
That's all! :D

I've heard some of the most entertaining stories as well as some of the most horrifying ones- about friends going to clubs.
Honestly, I don't really care about it myself. Don't drink, don't like people, don't like people looking at me--- if I'm feeling bad about not 'being out on a friday night' I'd rather have the option of going to a friend's house or to see a movie... or to go for a walk. No clubs for me. Not ever.
 
MaliceInWickedland

MaliceInWickedland

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I'm 17, single, and have never gone clubbing, partying, raving, whatever you want to call it - highly doubt I ever will for that matter. I also hate loud places and cannot stand to be in a place that's very loud AND crowded. I have a lot of friends that go to raves and stuff of the like and have even been invited on a few occasions but never accepted. I want to be able to meet people, especially guys, but clubs and raves are not my idea of a good hookup place. I'd probably pass out before I could even meet anyone ::p:
 
simpsons2007

simpsons2007

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I've only been once/twice about 12yrs ago didn't enjoy it one bit. Tooooo loud and tooooooo crowed with people having fun while I wasn't. I was the sad loner sat in the corner getting drunk by myself.
 
CosmicNeurotica

CosmicNeurotica

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I like to do anything and most everything (as long as it doesn't involve violence).
Who you're with matters more than where you go.

I wouldnt go to any club by myself though. Maybe a bar, but even that doesn't work out usually.
 
doubleM

doubleM

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if i go to a bar or club im usually bored to tears. i will play pool but thats it. nobody ever has anything good to talk about it seems. unless you want to talk about beer. i rarely go but sitting at home gets boring.
 
Lucy:)

Lucy:)

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I don't really like it, I dont like being in large crowds and around people who aren't in control of their actions.
Most of my friends go out alot but I dont really know how to brace the subject of telling them I don't like going without making myself sound stupid.
 
vexatiousmind

vexatiousmind

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I wouldn't mind going to a bar, but a lot of clubs don't appeal to me at all.
they seem kinda trashy too, but I haven't ever been so i can't really say
 
Danfalc

Danfalc

Banned
I got into clubbing recently at 26, I wasted too much of my childhood/teens with drugs and other dodgy activities.

It has it's good sides and down sides, some places are kind of trashy and full of idiots. But it's nice to just get tipsy and party, I feel I can be my true self and a messy weekend brings some normality back into my life. It's been really nice to bump into old friends, and make new ones.
 
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