Am i the only 1 who doesn't go clubbing like most people under 25

Captain_Lethargy

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Never really felt the urge to go clubbing, other than the possibility of meeting girls. ::eek:: I feel dumb trying to attract the opposite sex through dancing-it just seems really goofy to me. I would feel like an exotic bird doing a mating ritual in a nature documentary.
 

Rot

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I never liked clubbing. Never at all. But I had times when I felt really isolated and I went with some friends, just trying socialize myself and not being so alone.

I just can't see the point of it. And I don't see the fun in drinking, smoking and all this paraphernalia. Many times I just went like if it was an cientific experiment, seeing how people act and taking it as a challenge to get involved. But I could never be part of it. I could succeed acting like them and being part of it in appearence, but I never felt comfortable nor part of anything. It's like a robot that has learnt to act like people and nobody know it's robot, but it is, and it can't feel anything, just look like if it does.

All these clubbing places looked to me like prehistoric rituals, where people dance to the rythm of some "music" just to get paired.

I never felt more loner than clubbing, and I never felt so strange than surrounded by so much people.
 

Summoning

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I never went to a club, and I don't intend to go either. Bad music, lot's of people, alcohol, smoke and drugs.

Also, my closest friends don't like to go either. So we just stay at home playing some videogames, laughing and having a good time. When we do go out, we usually go dinner to some place and then we just hang around.

In one hand I guess I'm lucky for all my friends don't like to go to clubs and stuff, on the other hand the odds of meeting new people are significantly lower.
 

nikkixo

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most of my friends go all the time. the idea terrifies me. i would probably die of a heart attack
 

EnigmatiConduit

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I'm not interested at all because it is noisy and full of annoying people. I also don't drink, and being surrounded by heaps of drunk flirty people.. is not ideal for me. There also seems to be a skank dress code for girls, so i wouldn't fit in.
 

Prestonator

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I'm glad someone posted a thread about this. I don't go clubbing even though I know i would enjoy it. I don't though for several reasons:

1) I don't drink and hate the feeling of being sober in a drunken environment. I always feel like i have to look after the people I am with

2) I'm fearful I will become an alcoholic (maybe slightly neurotic but i can't help but think it!)

3) I often get claustrophobic in clubs, especially when they are packed

I really wish I could go out though, do you feel the same?
 

PhantomPod

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I'm 24 and I don't go clubbing. I have been before back when I was in college and it was alright and kinda fun.

But I'm really not very interested in going clubbing. I don't have any friends to go with anyway, but if I did have friends, I'd much rather stay home and hang out and play a game or see a movie or something than go clubbing.

My Friday and Saturday nights consist of me sitting home on the computer or watching TV by myself.
 

Seri

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I'm 26 and have never gone clubbing, nor do I have any desire to. I don't see the point really. I don't drink and if I want to have a good time I'd much rather do it in the comfort of my own home or with people that I'm comfortable with.

For me weekends/Friday nights are for relaxing with some music or a movie, and trying to get a few of the many things I need to do, done.
 
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