That'll be the day I leave!
this is not a dating site, it never will be.
Start a site yourself maybe?
41 and still have not experienced a sexual relationship..
- Thread starter BlueRose
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That'll be the day I leave!
this is not a dating site, it never will be.
Start a site yourself maybe?
BlueRose
Active member
That sounds like good idea to me..
lol ok this might sound funny...but the first sexual relationship anyone should experience should be masturbation. Discovering your own body, once you get that done you won't feel the need to always have someone there for you. I am girl and lol I have a bf and still no sex. If I ever feel the desire, I just do it to myself and that's it. I am in a long distance relationship and is hard. My aunt died a week ago and she was in her 40s, never left the house, didn't get married and died a virgin. I don't know what happened to her, she used to be social and then she just became mad at the world...............R.I.P aunt.
BlueRose
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First of all I don't find it amusing about masturbation, it's disgusting, it's like falling madly in love with yourself. Having sex without a partner to me is not fun so I wouldn't try it. Second what happened with your aunt was very sad, How did she die anyway if you don't mind me asking? If she committed suicide I can understand why. I don't blame her for being mad at the world, I feel so bad for your aunt.. My deepest sympathies to you.:
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I don't blame her for being mad at the world, I feel so bad for your aunt.. My deepest sympathies to you.:
And look what good being mad at the world did to her.
Staying mad at the world is pointless. If you don't like the world the way it is, then you must be the change you want to see in the world. Isolating yourself from the world isn't going to solve any problems.
Ashiene
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Masturbation only satisfies the physical aspect of sex, that is, sexual desire. However, masturbation alone cannot fulfill what most of us on this forum really want, that is, the emotional bond that comes with having sex with, and receiving and giving sexual pleasure to, someone you truly love.
That is what Nature intended for all of us. Love without sex, or sex without love, both leave large voids in our minds, voids that we fill with sex dolls or other addictions like drugs, obsessions, etc.
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kyle
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This thread has really got me thinking about Christine Chubbuck. I wish I could have been there for her. This is her story:
Chris Chubbock-Part 1
Chris Chubbock-Part 2
Look at how beautiful she was. it's a shame that she could not connect with other people.
Chris Chubbock-Part 1
Chris Chubbock-Part 2
Look at how beautiful she was. it's a shame that she could not connect with other people.
Argamemnon
Well-known member
This is evidence of the fact that some people have been dealt a bad hand in life. Looks mean nothing.
Noca
Banned
Thats not what I meant. I meant to go message people in order to start relationships NOT for sex.
anomicdeer
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Well, maybe no one will agree with me... I don't see anything special in sex... I would be lucky enough to actaully date someone I really like.
recluse
Well-known member
That's so tragic. I had never heard of her but i just looked her up in Wikipedia now. Feeling isolated, because of inability to connect to people, and never having had a relationship can drive people to despair. I can relate to her so much because i am almost the age she was (28) and i often feel in despair because i'm in the same situation. It goes to show that outward appearance can often fool people into thinking that the person is happy, i mean she was pretty and she was intelligent.
Danfalc
Banned
Why is it like madly falling in love with yourself?I think its a perfectly natrual harmless thing for people to do,even more so in people's younger years when they are still learning about there body...im not trying to say it can replace making love with someone else...and i guess everyone is entitled to there own opinions,but i dont see why its disgusting or you have to be in love with yourself to do it.
First of all I don't find it amusing about masturbation, it's disgusting, it's like falling madly in love with yourself. Having sex without a partner to me is not fun so I wouldn't try it. Second what happened with your aunt was very sad, How did she die anyway if you don't mind me asking? If she committed suicide I can understand why. I don't blame her for being mad at the world, I feel so bad for your aunt.. My deepest sympathies to you.:
Wow, don't say that shit, I am not trying to sound rude. No she did not commit suicide, she died of OSTEOPOROSIS. She was about to die once when her appendix exploited on the hands of the doctor the minute they took it out like 10 years ago. After that, she never went to the doctor and my mom used to advise her to go but she didn't want it to go. She didn't go out but she used to talk to a lot of people that used to visit her before she died. I don't know what happened to her, idk if she was rape or whatever it was. Also, and is ok because it was better because a doctor made believe he operated her but he just took the money and that made her worst. She couldn't do anything for herself, she was in bed suffering with pain.
About the masturbation, if you find it disgusting than I don't know what you will think of sex. I am still a virgin and I just masturbate which is a natural thing. I am actually scared to have sex and I rather masturbate, but if you find it disgusting I don't know what to tell you. A lot of females fake orgasms and some haven't even experience while I am 17 and I can make my own self orgasm which that makes me the one in control. I don't know how you are going to involve in the world of sex if you think masturbation is disgusting?....Also, there are many different ways to masturbate lol. Well, I tried helping you. Good luck!!!
BlueRose
Active member
Again I'm sorry about your aunt regardless, I didn't think you were rude, If I offended you I appologize, the last thing I want to do is insult anyone.. I just don't feel comfortable hearing about masturbation or doing it, I don't even watch any romance on TV or movies because it depresses me since I never experienced one. I appreciate your support though and don't worry I don't think your disgusting for masturbating, lol
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Ashiene
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Actually, nothing really matters. One day, the sun will die, all life on Earth will die. Even if we colonise other planets, there is no escaping that one day all the stars will die out, the entire universe will reach the end-point of entropy, and all existence will vanish.
recluse
Well-known member
A man's got to do what a man's got to do. I wonder how much sperm banks give, atleast then i'll be getting paid for it
BlueRose
Active member
Beep beep beep beep beep
Wow so positive, someone is having a day full of sunshine! That was so.... random, why does that have to do with anything?
Wow so positive, someone is having a day full of sunshine! That was so.... random, why does that have to do with anything?
anomicdeer
Well-known member
One thing I want to ask Blue Rose. Well not really, but how would you know that having sex without a partner is not fun but you never masterbated?