Search results

  1. IceLad

    Do the people that you live with bring you down?

    I live with my elderly mum, and she is forever wearing me down by leaning solely on me for her psychological/ emotional support. She is forever moaning to me about what’s gone wrong with her day, about her everyday problems, what she thinks other people think of her etc... It got to the point...
  2. IceLad

    Returning items to the store

    Does anyone have trouble with this? Recently I ended up buying a few bottles of my favourite mouthwash as it was on offer at buy one get one free. However I’ve only noticed today that there's been a recall of the product by the manufacturer, and you’re supposed to take it back to the store...
  3. IceLad

    Do you give spare change to strangers?

    I don’t know whether I have a kind looking face or the face of a mug! :D However I often get asked for money by strangers. I remember going to the city of York a few years ago, and on my first night I was going down a street heading back to my hotel. A young woman was walking in front of me...
  4. IceLad

    Had enough of voluntary work

    For the last few months I’ve been doing voluntary work at an organisation which deals with delinquent teenagers. Perhaps due to the nature of the work and the fact that their funding is uncertain, all the staff ever seem to do is slag off the organisation and each other. Also I don’t seem to...
  5. IceLad

    Are you treated with suscipion when shopping?

    I've lost count of the amount of times I seem to get followed around by security guards when I'm shopping. Going off dodgy vibes seems to run through my family as they complain a lot about the same thing also happening to them. Only this morning I was heading into a Marks and Spencer store...
  6. IceLad

    How anyone joined an employment agency?

    This is something which I've been thinking of doing for quite some time now, but which I've never actually got round to due to social anxiety/ procrastination. I've been advised lots of times by people to join one (none of which know I have SA). Has anyone joined one and what was it like? Did...
  7. IceLad

    Anyone know what's happened to maggie?

    She used to be quite a heavy poster on this forum, and for a short lived time was a moderator. I haven't heard anything from her in months and months. Anyone know what's happened?
  8. IceLad

    It's annoying when.....

    you arrange to meet up with old work colleagues for lunch, and one of them asks how you are, yet it's obvious from the tone of their voice and the fact that they're not actually looking at you when they ask(!), that they're not the slightest bit interested in your answer. Why bother to ask in...
  9. IceLad

    Your favourite summer movie?

    I find it very difficult going to the cinema, so I only go when I really, really want to see the movie. Unusually, there have been a few such movies released within a short time span of each other this year. What has been your favourite summer (or winter if you live in the southern hemisphere)...
  10. IceLad

    Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (Beware, spoliers!)

    It took me a week to finish the book. I'm sad that the series it at an end, but I was happy with the overall outcome. I was glad that Snape turned out to be good. I think Alan Rickman plays him very well in the films. The body count was higher than the previous books- Hedwig, Mad Eye Moody...
  11. IceLad

    MySpace/ Facebook

    I'm in two minds about joining one of these social networking sites. For anyone who has already got a page, is it easy to set up and personalize, and on the whole, is it a good thing to do? For anyone who doesn't have a page, would you consider joining either one of them?
  12. IceLad

    How much of an improvement should I expect with medication?

    Hi everyone, I'm dithering whether to go back to the doctors. In the past, I've been on Propranolol (normal and prolonged release tablets), Prozac and Citalopram. At times, they only made a bit of an improvement to my everyday life. Now I know medication is no wonder cure for SP, but how much...
  13. IceLad

    Experiences claiming benefit....

    I will probably have to make a claim for benefit in the foreseeable future, and am wondering about people's experiences claiming it. For example, do you claim Jobseeker's Allowance or Incapacity Benefit? Is is a straightforward process or is there no end of problems? Do you disclose your SP...
  14. IceLad

    Job dilemma- would you take redundancy?

    Hello everyone. I’m looking for people to perhaps share their experiences or express their opinions. I’ve been in my current job for over 5 years now. My employer is currently seeking volunteers for redundancy, and I’m not sure what to do for the best. This has been my first ever job and it...
  15. IceLad

    Has anyone seen......

    Has anyone seen an Australian based dvd- I think, they think.....Overcoming social phobia? Only 50 or minutes long, but it provided a useful insight of SP- what it is, treatments available, role of medication, when setbacks occur etc. It followed three people with SP, and I could definitely...
  16. IceLad

    Would you compromise your choice of partner due to SP?

    Would you compromise your choice of partner due to SP :?: This has been running through my mind a lot in the last few months- getting together with someone who isn't bad, but doesn't quite 'do it'. Would it be fair on them? Would it be fair on you? How can you be sure unless you try...
  17. IceLad

    Happy New Year!

    :) Happy New Year everybody! :) Hope everyone achieves what they aim for this year.
  18. IceLad

    What pressies did you get?

    I know XMAS isn't just about the presents- there is also the alcohol and food for starters! Only joking lol :lol: :lol:, but here is my list: The Simpsons Season 8 dvd Neverwinter Nights 2 (pc game) Kingdom Hearts 2 (ps2 game) Socks Shower gel Bottle of whisky Aftershave Gift vouchers
  19. IceLad

    The Snowman or Father Christmas?

    Which do you prefer- The Snowman or Father Christmas? Both are classic animations which I never grow out of watching. The Snowman has good music/ sounds throughout, although I prefer Father Christmas as it possesses dialogue and has more humour. What does everyone think?
  20. IceLad

    Is there life elsewhere?

    Do little green men exist? 8O Have they visited this planet before? 8O 8O I believe that there are some many galaxies out there with so many stars, that the chances are, life has to exist elsewhere and its only a matter of time before they communicate with us (assuming they already haven't...
Top