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I find it incredibly difficult to tell family and my parents in particular about what I am getting up to, who I am meeting, friends and i find it particularly difficult to talk about girls. The other day my nan asked me in front of my mum if I found this particular girl attractive and I kind of...

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"Our greatest happiness does not depend on the condition of life in which chance has placed us, but is always the result of a good conscience, good health, occupation, and freedom in all just pursuits".

Hi everyone, I haven't been on in ages. I have improved vastly since last coming on but right now I am feeling incredibly anxious about entering into a relationship with a girlfriend. I am 23 and have never had one and am so ****ing desperate. I find it difficult not to worry...

Title is self explanatory. Just wondering whether anybody would be interested in meeting up some time. Of course, we should probably get to know each other on here first before finally meeting up :)

I am really wanting to find a girlfriend and I am also incredibly attracted to shy, kind girls but have no idea where I would go about looking for one. Anybody got any ideas?

I have mentioned this before on other threads but I am 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I have been seeing a counsellor and she has helped me and I feel capable of finding a girlfriend now. However, I am incredibly anxious about kissing. I am more anxious about kissing than I am sex...

I've become really anxious lately and I'm starting a placement on Thursday. Does anyone have any tips about calming my nerves?

Every one of my family member's who were alive when I was born are still alive now. However, my grandad has been hospitalised for the last two months and the doctors say he hasn't got long left. I visited him today and he is a state. He kept asking for a pen to write us cheques (he did the same...

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One of my referee's for a job application that I am putting together is my counsellor. Should I be honest and admit that she is my counsellor or should I just say that she is a friend? She told me to lie and tell them that we're friends but the thing is that the only contact details I have of...

I really want a girlfriend at the moment but I don't have a salary and I can't drive which isn't helpful. I don't know where to find the kind of girl that I am looking for; I'm not into pubs/clubs etc. I have offered my services to volunteer for a charity working with animals close to me but...

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Apologies for my long opening post. They won't all be this long :) Various members of the forum have suggested that I start one of these things so, here it is: I'll start off with a brief summary of my life: For some reason I've suffered from anxiety for as long as I can remember. My mum also...

I just told a guy my life story online. That I am 22 years old, had a tough life, never had a girlfriend and got this response from him: Wow....unconfident loser. That's what type of man this world needs. You're supposed to be a man. Suck it up and stop bitching. Here's what I want you to do...

My university has offered me disability allowance but I have never thought of myself as being disabled. I would feel that I would have a stigma attached to me if I accepted it. Do you consider yourself to be disabled?

As time goes by I think my understanding and awareness of why I am anxious in social situations becoems more apparent to me. The latest thing that I have realised is that I don't think I am capable of looking after myself once I leave my parents' house. I don't have a clue how to do basic...

I've just written my first ever poem. It's only short but it's my first ever one. It's called 'If only you knew'. I really like the first stanza but I feel that it goes downhill after that. I want to cringe when I read back over it and I think it is really cheesy. In fact I have no idea why I am...

For the first time in my life a girl has just told me that I'm a lovely guy :D The sad thing is that she is already in a relationship. Edit: Forgot to add she also said that she wishes that there were more people like me.

Ok, so in hindsight I made a mistake when I used the word chivalry in my other thread; I meant romance rather than chivalry. I have lazily copy-and-pasted my opening post from the other thread but altered it to make sense in this one. I was just wondering what your opinions are on romance...