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I just hate being in the car with my sibling and her mates (but it's rarely one of her mates) orboyfriend. My parents and I are out in the car coming back from somewhere and my sister is out with her mates or boyfriend. She'll call my dad on his mobile and tell him whether it's ok to pick them...

i'm glad this is here because i need somewhere where i can talk about my sister so i am going to do it here My sister and I don't get on. We never talk to each other. We used to play and talk to each other when we were younger but now it's just silence and i feel she ignores me and makes it...

I have been on this gateway to work 2 week programme (it's a course where they help you get a job, make/update your CV, do spec and cover letters, job searching on computer etc etc) i was transfered over there from the jobcentreplus. At the end of the programme Friday, we have to do a one to...

Hi, i'm sooooo shy!! and i'm 22! and i feel like i'm the only one! :lol: most woman my age are really really outgoing or they were shy when they were at school but they are now outgoing, have like 20 friends, a really good job, has been out with lots of guys, has a boyfriend and has settled...

Anyone else shy around their siblings boyfriend/girlfriend? I am :lol: My sister's been going out with him now for 1 and half years and i have not said nothing to him (ok, except hi a few times but then i stopped lol) or he hasn't said anything to me either. Sometimes he comes round...

Ok, so it's a little early to be writing about this and even worrying because my birthday is not until 8th August. But well my dad wants to go out for a meal in a chinese restaurant and he suggested that we take my sister's boyfriend (both 17) along with us too because he says he's at least...

Guess what. The manager at this shop i work at as part of work placement asked me a favour to go to the post office and i was thinking to myself "arghh!" LOL lol but i did it! She couldn't do it because she had to stay in the shop, because say if i was on the till and i needed some help (i do...

Haven't been on here in a while. Been on other forums and out and again (i sorta have a life again, rather than sitting at home all the time) My social phobia is not all that bad at the moment and i think it's improving. The things i've done to know that i think i'm improving is: The other...

I go to this training place where you do job searching, they organise a work placement for you to go on, help you with your maths, IT skills, help you with your CV's, anything you need help with basically. I go once a week every Monday. I do some job searching there on the computers and look...

Anyone feeling a little bit sad because they have not got anyone special to spend it with? I am :( I won't be able to give a special someone presents and card.I won't be able to go out for a special meal with someone (or i'd probably refuse anyway because i hate eating out :lol: ) oreven go...

I've started on this training programme, but i only go every Monday for now. The people are nice and there's all different ages there. Some much older than me. My problem is...i can't seem to talk to them. I mean i know i've only been two Monday's so far and i don't go every day of the week so i...

I have a slight hearing problem and i've had it since i was little. I think my SA is a little bit because of that too and not only because i'm shy and struggle to make conversation with people. i hate it when i come across a person who talks really quiet or talks really fast. I get really...

arghhhhh....this is the most worst thing i've had to come across!!! My sister phoned my mum from school today (or about half an hour ago) and said (my mum told me what she said) that she wants her new boyfriend to sleep over and i'm soooo nervous! wondering where i will go, how i will react etc...

Has anyone ever been somewhere, where there was someone who also suffered from the same problems as you - Social Phobia? (Hope i'm making sense lol) Ok, like has anyone ever been in a class at school and realised there's another person in that class who (or you suspect because you can see her...

I don't get my sister sometimes. She's shy and she's admitted it once when we were talking about something and she brought it up saying "I'm not the most out-going person etc etc..." (as in her not me) but i don't nesscarily think she is because recently this new guy started at her school...