Kiwong
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Adani's Galilee Basin project 'not commercially viable'
I am a dreaded great barrier reef protectionist.
I am a dreaded great barrier reef protectionist.
I'm looking into it. Its the last thing I wanted, to be fighting over money. The ones who suffer as in most cases like this are the kids.
The lady from child support could understand my concern and frustration, and without saying as much agreed with me.
With the current laws, if you're a father in a separation in Australia, you're behind the eight ball from the start.
^Go to court and apply to get "Sole Custody" officially on record. Then you won't have to pay her because the court will recognise you officially as the parent with Sole Custody. Can you get access to Legal Aid?Feeling pretty angry..frustrated...helpless at the moment.
I separated from my wife of 19 years because she's an alcoholic and she was putting our kids in danger.
I get a phone call from 'child support and maintenance' today and they inform me that I'll have to pay my ex 'child maintenance'.
I say; ' but the kids still live with me.. I'm raising them pretty much on my own now..'
'Unfortunately' she says, ' you earn more money than she does, so you have to pay her.'
Sorry you are feeling this way. Just wanted you to know that you are not alone in hating that you can see if someone read your message and didn't respond. It's very anxiety inducing for those of us with social issues :thumbdown:I feel grumpy and lonely. People are ignoring me and I don't know why. I barely see my friends in person so I use facebook to try and talk to them. Whenever I try to send a message to a friend on facebook they just blank me. The wee chat thing says they saw my message but they just don't respond. Even when I'm chatting with someone and they are replying they'll just suddenly stop but it says they saw my message. I'm not saying anything offensive or anything. If I'm doing something wrong then I'm completely oblivious to what it is. Sometimes it's like they do it to torture me. For example one of my friends sent me a message saying "Hey" and I responded saying "Hey. How's things?" and it says they read my message but they didn't reply. That was like 2 weeks ago and I haven't heard from them. Why did they even message me if they didn't want to talk to me? It feels like they only talk to me when they want something and I no longer have anything they want. I have a girlfriend but she's so busy all the time and I barely hear from her or see her even though we live in the same city.
I can't stop this feeling of hopelessness. It's a feeling I deal with almost everyday.
^Go to court and apply to get "Sole Custody" officially on record. Then you won't have to pay her because the court will recognise you officially as the parent with Sole Custody. Can you get access to Legal Aid?
Thanks. I wanna find my way out of it but I just don't have any answers at all.Sorry tae hear that yer feelin' like that, Juice. Ah can definitely relate, though. Ah've bin feelin' that way masel', lately. So yer not alone.
The void grows.
Whit's wrong...? (If ye dinnae want tae say, ye dinnae huv tae... Sorry, I'm being a nosy c*nt) :bigsmile: