Kelly Clarkson - Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You) - YouTube This song would come in handy lol
i like all types of men and i'd say women aren't nearly as 'picky' if you will, than most guys think. if you're genuine, everyone likes you! just be yourself and express interest in whatever way feels natural and you'll be fine.
i do wish i could pick up some guys though
all in good time.
I rarely speak more than a few words to people I don't know. Every now and then I give one a compliment on the street, but just rarely. I know that I'm neither that attractive nor the richest guy, and any other qualities can't impress on the street, so why bother.
I admire your tenacity, perhaps it will be rewarded if you try hard enough. Just I wonder, you can´t see into melons and women :bigsmile: So how can you know which one of the lot to approach? Exterior?
I'm definitely going to end up alone if this continues.
What I find is that women tend to respond well if they trust you and you make them feel comfortable. Unless you are exceptionally charming and bold (and let's face it - most guys who have social anxiety are not), or you elicit some kind of attraction from them you would have to take the side route - if they get to know you and feel comfortable - over time they may develop an attraction. But you don't want to be too safe - cos otherwise it's friend zone city - and that is an un-escapable pit of hell that no man wants to be in.
Just my two cents - please dont castrate me SPW
It's hard to identify when a girl is flirting or not.
For example, I went to a coffee shop yesterday and the cashier (who was a girl) was smiling excessively at me. I don't know if she was just being nice or actually flirting. So hard to tell.
Me being me, didn't do anything of course.
My confidence is poop. My only concern with my clothes is dressing not to be noticed (mostly grays and earth tones; t-shirt and jeans). I've still dated numerous women. I suspect the requirements of women may not be all that stringent.theres no point is trying to talk females ...... if you don't believe in yourself .. you have to believe in yourself believe in yourself and your make the effort to look nice keep fit dress well keep head up high stand with confidence walk with confidence talk with a clear not to quiet not to loud voice