MsBuzzkillington
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Good for you! Stand up for yourself! Good job!
How are you feeling?
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Good for you! Stand up for yourself! Good job!
Srijita52
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Moving to a new country is hard and it usually takes some time to adjust. Just hang in there. If youThank you guysI find so much support on this forum, it really helps me to get through a lot.
What I find really hard right now is adjusting to new society. I've just moved to a new country three weeks ago and I feel so awkward, so lonely and misplaced. People in my school have known each other for a while and I feel like I am never going to find any friends with whom I can be even a little close. And then the language is an obstacle, too: I don't even say anything, in the fear of not pronouncing it right, making it sound incomprehensible.
find the language an obstacle maybe learning it a little more can help? Don't be too hard on yourself though, its all new for you and people can understand. I hope you find some nice friends, don't give up
lonely_drummer
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Lol, you would have been proud. I think I came off a little rude but this wasn't the first time either. I went down and said, can you please put that back to drop d tunning? And he was all, what!?! And I looked around and counted and said, there's 7 other guitars I can see right now, pick one of them if you can't handle my tunning! I was proud. But seriously there are so many other choices down there but I guess you can't resist a tele, hehehe, I sure can't!
Invisibleman
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Im ordering something off of a website and im annoyed with its grimey ways
MsBuzzkillington
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Good, they were more rude than you could have been. I can't believe they were messing with your stuff without asking.
lonely_drummer
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I don't like people using my pedals but I don't mind if they use my guitar or amp, I know they won't play louder than I can but just don't mess with my tunnings because they never put it back and I don't know, thats just not cool, I wouldn't do that.
Srijita52
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You really did the right thing here. Way to go!
KiaKaha
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I used to have a zoom 505 guitar effects pedal (many years ago now) until someone broke it. I shouldnt have let him use it. There are two things I never let people use now, my guitar stuff and my car.
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I'm feeling particularly hermit-like right now. I feel I want to talk to people but when I´m in a conversation I feel so inept at expressing myself correctly and at thinking what to respond that it becomes torture. Every sentence coming out of my mouth is a potential failure and my mind floods with self doubt to such a degree that I can´t think clearly anymore. When I'm talking about any subject I am painfully self-conscious about how little I know, and that often paralyses me mentally. At that point I´m so anxious that I feel like running away and avoiding human contact for some time. But of course, I can´t do that. It wouldn't be very polite of me to just run off in mid-sentence; I also don´t want to be perceived as stranger than I might already seem to the person with whom I'm talking. I don´t know what to do.
awkwardamanda
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Ugh, my throat hurts like hell.::
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BlueDays
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Ugh, my throat hurts like hell.:
Do you have any honey you can have a few mouthfuls of? That works wonders when I have a sore throat. So many users in here have had sore throats lately!
I hope your throat is feeling better very soon amanda, get plenty of rest if you are able to.
1BlackSheep
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Tell us how you really feel!
MsBuzzkillington
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Tell us how you really feel!
A whole website dedicated to making fun of people? I mean, it's no wonder some people are afraid of being judged in public. I have never found the humor in laughing at others. Sorry... :/ That's how I really feel. I am not trying to be rude.
1BlackSheep
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Maybe it's the way you say it...
Nanita
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Thank you guys
What I find really hard right now is adjusting to new society. I've just moved to a new country three weeks ago and I feel so awkward, so lonely and misplaced. People in my school have known each other for a while and I feel like I am never going to find any friends with whom I can be even a little close. And then the language is an obstacle, too: I don't even say anything, in the fear of not pronouncing it right, making it sound incomprehensible.
Hang in there.... It is difficult being in a new culture/country, I have tried it a couple of times. Maybe there are things u can do to improve the situation, but sometimes it just needs time to get better.
You´re right, that kind of website is kind of stupid and unnecessary
MikeyC
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I feel good but tired. Just came back from Sydney after recording some drums for our band. I didn't expect to get so much done but I managed to get all the songs we planned recorded, after aiming for about 4 of them, tops. I feel like I actually accomplished something today.
MrJones
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Awesome, Mikey! Well done, you should be proud of yourself