Invisibleman
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Im the most dependant f**kin loser. I hate my life.
How are you feeling?
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Srijita52
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I'm sure that's not true. What makes you think that?
Invisibleman
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Just realizing that im a f**kin child. Even if I had the option to move out and be independant I wouldnt be able to,I know nothing about the real world thanks to my parents.
Srijita52
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You don't have to know about it all before trying to be independant, in fact I think a lot of people don't. If its something you're considering, maybe you can give it a try and see how things work out. Do little experiments and try to figure out which way you want to go, of course it'll be hard but not impossible.
MsBuzzkillington
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Well, if you know nothing about the world then it's about time you get out there and learn something. If you feel like you are too dependent on your parents then it's about time that you challenge yourself to do things that will help you gain independence. If you are unhappy with your situation, then do something to change it.
It's going to be hard and it's going to take a lot of work. It will be scary. But it's not impossible.
Ah, I typed my reply and sent it after the reply above mine. But, I agree too. Not everyone knows everything about the world before they enter it. It's all about learning about it. Sometimes we make mistakes and sometimes we get it right. Nobody is an expert.
It's going to be hard and it's going to take a lot of work. It will be scary. But it's not impossible.
Ah, I typed my reply and sent it after the reply above mine. But, I agree too. Not everyone knows everything about the world before they enter it. It's all about learning about it. Sometimes we make mistakes and sometimes we get it right. Nobody is an expert.
awkwardamanda
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Are we all passing germs around the internet, or what? I've had a sore throat since yesterday too.:
: I feel like crap. I've been pigging out on Werther's and tea all day.
On top of that, I feel like a loser right now because I can't keep a conversation going. Just started talking to someone new online earlier tonight. It didn't last too long. I just never know what to say next.::
: I feel like crap. I've been pigging out on Werther's and tea all day.On top of that, I feel like a loser right now because I can't keep a conversation going. Just started talking to someone new online earlier tonight. It didn't last too long. I just never know what to say next.:
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dottie
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ok blame your parents to an extent but pull up your bootstraps and take responsibility for yourself. be awkward. make mistakes. be scared ****less. you can do it.
DeadmanWalking
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Are we all passing germs around the internet, or what? I've had a sore throat since yesterday too.:
On top of that, I feel like a loser right now because I can't keep a conversation going. Just started talking to someone new online earlier tonight. It didn't last too long. I just never know what to say next.:
You aren't crap and you aren't a loser. If you think that you ate a lot, then exercise it off, okay? But, just because you "pigged out" on something doesn't make you crap. You're still the same, pretty you that you were before. As for talking, well, some people can talk better than others. It doesn't mean that you suck just because you can't talk. If you're lacking in subjects to talk about, then ask them about things that you would wish to know about them or talk about your hobbies. If there's any unknown element to them, then that's conversation potential.
Invisibleman
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I would give it a try except I have no job so I have zero income,I know nothing about paying bills,bank accounts,car insurance, I dont even know what a f**kin credit card is let alone knowing how to use one. Im a senior in highschool,my parents should have taught me this shi*t eons ago,everybody my age has known how to do this stuff for ages. Like I said im so dependent and my confidence is so f**kin low,all the sh*t my sister says rings through my head every day.
LittleKitty
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I feel happy =) Kinda nervous... like I usually am. OH SILLY KITTY. OH YEAH, LOOK! I'M TALKING TO MYSELF... WHAT THE HELL. =D
awkwardamanda
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When I said I felt like crap all I meant was that I'm sick. The candy and tea help my sore throat. As for the conversation, it's easier said than done. I have a tendency to blank out. It was enough to put me in a bad mood.
DeadmanWalking
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Oh, I see. And you're right. You can go on the Internet and find some good topics to talk about. Anything you can think of, just write it down on something and have it with you when you talk (online). Be sure to memorize it so you can talk (in person).
Srijita52
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lol I'm in college and I don't know about most of the things you mentioned. If its something important to you though maybe you can try to get a job, try to take care of things on your own rather than depending on your parents. Don't beat yourself too much for it, its not too late and you have all the time to learn.
Its same with me, but I've heard it gets better with practise. Also try to learn about various things from which you can draw out some materials to
talk. Try to go into detail about what you're talking instead of giving short answers. Its still very hard at times though, don't be too hard on yourself. All of us have days in which we don't feel like talking much.
The lowest I've ever felt in a really long while. I would say my daily mood is a 6-7 on most days. Well it went from 6 to s*** and back to black instead of gray. All of my hopes crushed.
I don't think I am a loser but I hate where I am at right now and puts down my hopes and dreams when people say that I will never f**8in amount to anything and it's the truth and I would hate to hear the truth. I overheard that person. I wanted to confront them but some people you can not talk to because they yell. They get to talk for 5 mins but once I say one sentence they cut me off and go apes and make me feel less of a human. . I loathe that kind of arrogance in people. You're an adult there is no reason to overtalk, bark and act superior.
I have explained over and over what my problems are, I don't know how I could be more straight foward. Some people expect me to have no brain cells. They expect me to walk around in tight jacket and have no sense. People with certian mental disorders get so sterotyped it's not funny. Many people take them as joke or they are misinformed and don't care to be informed because they know their crazy uncle/best friend had it and he acted like a baffoon so I am suppose to be a baffoon.
I don't think I am a loser but I hate where I am at right now and puts down my hopes and dreams when people say that I will never f**8in amount to anything and it's the truth and I would hate to hear the truth. I overheard that person. I wanted to confront them but some people you can not talk to because they yell. They get to talk for 5 mins but once I say one sentence they cut me off and go apes and make me feel less of a human. . I loathe that kind of arrogance in people. You're an adult there is no reason to overtalk, bark and act superior.
I have explained over and over what my problems are, I don't know how I could be more straight foward. Some people expect me to have no brain cells. They expect me to walk around in tight jacket and have no sense. People with certian mental disorders get so sterotyped it's not funny. Many people take them as joke or they are misinformed and don't care to be informed because they know their crazy uncle/best friend had it and he acted like a baffoon so I am suppose to be a baffoon.
Srijita52
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I'm sorry to hear that. There're always some people who never want to understand anything, no matter how much you try. I've found out that its usually no use make them understand. But don't let them to get to you too much.
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MrJones
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Especially lonely today... I don't know why I still feel like this, I've been always lonely and probably I always will, no changes seem to be coming, and in fact everyday has been worse than the previous one for quite a while.
Grades getting worse, people leaving behind both in my personal and my professional life, 3 anxiety attacks in 3 days, discovering people who I called friends were only looking for something again, making mistake after mistake...
I understand why people don't want to talk to me, but it still hurts ::
PS: I'm talking about people from outside this site
Grades getting worse, people leaving behind both in my personal and my professional life, 3 anxiety attacks in 3 days, discovering people who I called friends were only looking for something again, making mistake after mistake...
I understand why people don't want to talk to me, but it still hurts :
:PS: I'm talking about people from outside this site
Especially lonely today... I don't know why I still feel like this, I've been always lonely and probably I always will, no changes seem to be coming, and in fact everyday has been worse than the previous one for quite a while.
Grades getting worse, people leaving behind both in my personal and my professional life, 3 anxiety attacks in 3 days, discovering people who I called friends were only looking for something again, making mistake after mistake...
I understand why people don't want to talk to me, but it still hurts :
PS: I'm talking about people from outside this site
You won't always be lonley, you guys are great people at heart and mind.
That's terrible, that people act phoney with you I'm sorry that you run into those types.
Shyangel
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Especially lonely today... I don't know why I still feel like this, I've been always lonely and probably I always will, no changes seem to be coming, and in fact everyday has been worse than the previous one for quite a while.
Grades getting worse, people leaving behind both in my personal and my professional life, 3 anxiety attacks in 3 days, discovering people who I called friends were only looking for something again, making mistake after mistake...
I understand why people don't want to talk to me, but it still hurts :
PS: I'm talking about people from outside this site
I think your an awesome guy, Mrjones. You are very kind and caring to everyone on this site. I would definitely be your friend if we were within driving distance. I'm so sorry for all your struggles, but you have to try and concentrate on the good. Bad things are gonna happen in life, you can't let it tare you down, you got to get back up and do whatever you can to improve it....I really hope things get better for you soon