How are you feeling?

S

Silatuyok

Well-known member
I'm a little pissed off. I've complained about my boyfriend's sister before, and I try not to on a public forum, but it's really starting to irritate me. I posted an album of pics of our new house on facebook. Instead of commenting on the photos, she went to my boyfriend's page to tell him how charming HIS new house is. She hasn't said a single word to me, aside from asking if she can share the pics with her parents.
I'm debating whether or not to tell my boyfriend that I am feeling very insulted. It's probably going to come out at some point, so might as well just come straight out and say it now, I guess.
 
Phoenixx

Phoenixx

Well-known member
Tired. Got through two exams today, so my brain is shot. All I want to do is either sleep or just lay down and read my book, but I have homework to do. Bleh.
 
S

Silatuyok

Well-known member
MikeyC said:
I'm cranky. Had a bad day at work, haven't had enough sleep, and it's Halloween, so kids are going to be knocking at the door.

Also a girl I know is house-sitting next door but doesn't seem to want to hang out with me. That's her in a nutshell.

I should be just going to bed. I'm not going to be much help to anyone on this site tonight. :/
Click to expand...

Hope you feel better soon. I'm kinda cranky today too.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

Well-known member
Srijita52 said:
I'm sorry you're having a bad day Mikey. I hope you feel better after having some sleep, Goodnight :)
Click to expand...
Absolutely_Sweet_Marie said:
Hope you feel better soon. I'm kinda cranky today too.
Click to expand...
Thanks, ladies. :) Your caring means a lot. I'm feeling a little better today, but still not great. My colleague at work made me laugh harder than I have done in weeks, so that was good. :)

moon_x said:
a seemingly unending feeling of sadness
Click to expand...
Welcome to the forum, moon_x. I'm sorry to hear that. Is it one particular thing that's bothering you or is it a bunch of stuff?

Absolutely_Sweet_Marie said:
I'm a little pissed off. I've complained about my boyfriend's sister before, and I try not to on a public forum, but it's really starting to irritate me. I posted an album of pics of our new house on facebook. Instead of commenting on the photos, she went to my boyfriend's page to tell him how charming HIS new house is. She hasn't said a single word to me, aside from asking if she can share the pics with her parents.
I'm debating whether or not to tell my boyfriend that I am feeling very insulted. It's probably going to come out at some point, so might as well just come straight out and say it now, I guess.
Click to expand...
Yeah, definitely confront your boyfriend. It's obviously making you feel upset and unworthy so it's something you should get out in the open before it consumes you. Good luck.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

Well-known member
Absolutely_Sweet_Marie said:
Not well enough. Pretty much just saying, "oh that's the way she is, try not to feel bad about it. She likes you."
Click to expand...
No, that can't be good enough. You should tell him how her ignoring you makes you feel. Maybe you should contact her and tell her. That way she can know how her actions are directly affecting you.

Maybe that is the way she is, but it's not going to help you at all when she keeps pushing you away. It's not fair on you.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

Well-known member
BlueDays said:
Sad and lonely.
oh well, at least I had a few days break from the usual feelings.
Click to expand...
I missed this post. Sorry you're feeling that way. Big hugs to you (a good Aussie hug, too!).

I'm feeling alright, but there's still a feeling of dread inside. I'm being shouted free lunch very soon so that's pretty great.
 
theslowesthand

theslowesthand

Banned
Just rang up this therapy place, with intention of re-starting therapy (havent done any for about 3 ears). God know i need it rigt now, in my present crisis.
And straight after the call, am feeling that i'm not "worthy" of therapy. I feel like i'm just being perfectionistic or sth, and NOT having the daily problems i'm having. I think talking to people (ie "socialising") sems to do this to me - makes me feel all is okay, and that i actually HAVEN'T got any major problems. And so i will again, feel "dis-ingenuine" no doubt, during these sessions. Confusing.
 
BlueDays

BlueDays

1
PipsMcClawski said:
I'm sorry ::(: *HUGS* What did you do to feel good? Have a crap load of that special sugar you got over there.
Click to expand...


MikeyC said:
I missed this post. Sorry you're feeling that way. Big hugs to you (a good Aussie hug, too!).

I'm feeling alright, but there's still a feeling of dread inside. I'm being shouted free lunch very soon so that's pretty great.
Click to expand...

awww thanks Pips and MikeyC:)

Yes I should Pips.::p: *shoves a heaped tablespoon of it into her mouth*

I hope you enjoy your free lunch MikeyC and it helps to relieve the dread your feeling for a while at least.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

Well-known member
Agent_Violet said:
Beautiful...
Click to expand...
So you should. :)

Absolutely_Sweet_Marie said:
Feeling good enough to go home now. Thanks to those who helped me out tonight.
Click to expand...
You're very welcome. I hope she realises how mean she's being to you, unintentionally or not.

BlueDays said:
awww thanks Pips and MikeyC:)

Yes I should Pips.::p: *shoves a heaped tablespoon of it into her mouth*

I hope you enjoy your free lunch MikeyC and it helps to relieve the dread your feeling for a while at least.
Click to expand...
You're welcome, BlueDays. The free lunch was great, and it was a chance to piece together the events of Saturday night, especially the bits I missed after I left. I still feel a bit anxious when talking to people, which is something I'd like to get away from.

Anyway, the point is: free lunch was sweet!
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top