Think of it this way: If you suddenly lost one of your legs and I came up to you and told you "Well, you don't have a reason to be upset because someone else lost both of their legs." How would this make you feel? Disempowered maybe? Less confident? You wouldn't like it if someone denied you help/validation when you desperately needed it, would you?
Good to hear from you, Fountain. I hope you’re doing well.