Will you go to your high school reunion if they were making one?

Will you go to your high school reunion if they were making one?

  • Yes

    Votes: 9 10.6%
  • HELL TO THE FREAKING NO

    Votes: 45 52.9%
  • Maybe

    Votes: 13 15.3%
  • I didn't think about yet

    Votes: 2 2.4%
  • I went

    Votes: 2 2.4%
  • I skip it

    Votes: 14 16.5%

  • Total voters
    85

Rembrandt Broam

Well-known member
One of my classmates from high school keeps visiting my mom who helps him out, and mentioned once about wanting to see me. This past summer, a couple weeks before I left for college he decided to sneak upstairs to where I was and was actively trying to find me. I snuck back and forth between my room and into the bathroom at all the appropriate times and he never saw me. I know it's rude, but he was kind of intruding and I can't help how evasive I am :rolleyes:

He entered your home, and came upstairs looking for you? :eek: It doesn't sound like he was kind of intruding...he was absolutely intruding. That's just incredibly creepy behaviour. If he wanted to see you, he should have just picked up a phone and called you, or even emailed or messaged you.
 

Niteowl

Well-known member
No, I'm afraid not ... I didn't really like anyone there, aside from my friends, and they didn't particularly like me either. It would be fascinating to know what everyone's up to in the future, but I'd rather pass them in the store or something and have a quick chat then. Maybe I'll just never see them again. I don't care that they were bullies. I'm sure all (or most) of them have grown up by now, and if they haven't, they might have done 20, 30 years down the line.
 

drewjanes

Active member
depends. if i still have my anxiety and panic attacks... then f*ck no. the last thing id want, is to be the single, fat, jobless, sweaty, loser all sketched out looking like a paranoid freak having panic attacks on the f*cking floor (im assumeing thats what i'll become with this panic disorder)

BUT if im anxiety free. then yes. id show up, and id be a confident architect with a wife and kids.......and a f*cking jet pack. loads money and a slim toned stature.

hahah well thats what id like to think any way.
 
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drganon

Well-known member
Only if I'm elected as the first astronaut billionaire fascist President/evil dictator for life of the United states. And I'll only be there to gloat about how awesome I am.
 

Zav

Well-known member
No way. I had a pretty awful high school experience and everybody thought of me as a doofus anyway. No need to go and remind myself of it.
 
No... I don't really care about the rest of my graduating class. At all. Don't care where they are or what they're doing, nor will I ever care.

Although "HELL TO THE FREAKING NO" might be a bit too negative.
 

mmmm

Well-known member
I went to my 10 year this year. It helped me put a lot of things to rest. I recommend it as a healing experience for anyone who hated high school and everybody in it as much as I did.
 

razzle dazzle rose

Well-known member
It would be pointless to go. I was like a ghost in that school; hardly anyone knew I existed. High school is one chapter of my life that I have locked up and am trying to forget ALL about it.

I feel the same way. And nothing much has changed about me. I have seen what the majority of people are up to thanks to FB, and while nothing is really impressive, they have moved on in their lives...they are married, have children. I don't have that, and I don't have the sparkling career either. Not a party person...what would I talk about?

My 10 year HS reunion was last year, though it was supposed to be this year. I didn't know about it, but even if I had, I wouldn't have gone!
 

this_portrait

Well-known member
I might. On the one hand, it would be interesting to see what's happened to my old classmates within the past however many years, but on the other hand, it would be awkward as hell, and I don't really know if I could deal with that awkwardness.
 
I skipped my 5 year school reunion. Actually, I wasn't really invited. Apparently the class representatives thought the best way to spread the word was on Facebook. :rolleyes: I only heard about it from a classmate I ran into at the laundromat. Double eyeroll. I probably won't go to the 10 year either. Maybe once I've become more comfortable with myself and I actually have a job and my own place, then I may go to future reunions.
 

Bustn Justin

Well-known member
I had mine last year and I was like hell no that I am going since I did not want to relive some bad parts of my past.

Relectantly I did end up going and most of the guys remembered me and gave me a hug. Overall I had a good time and was able to let go of my anger towards some of the who have caused me problems during that time.

I would recommend that if you have the opportunity to go then go. If the people suck that bad you can always leave early.
 

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
I'll have to wait and see how I'm doing in 10 years if we have one then. If I'm doing well socially and feel able to go, why not? I wouldn't mind seeing some people, high school wasn't a miserable of an experiences for me. If I'm not doing well of course I won't go, a 30 year old sitting in the corner silent may creep some people out.
 

Acegame

Well-known member
Lol, what a coincidence. There actually was a reunion of my high school this weekend. I didn't go because i heard about it 1 day before. But otherwise i probably wouldn't have gone either. Maybe sometime when i feel a little better.
 

Apersonalan

Well-known member
I think the rsvp's were already sent out on facebook but I don't have it I would only want to go if people I knew well were there and the only ones there. I have no desires to catch up on randomville.
 
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