Which kind of guy do girls go after most?
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Luke1993
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Attractive ones, and attraction comes in many different forms I guess!
But if I had to choose from the choice given hmm.... I'd say "the bad ass"
mrb
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depends on the girl , some like shy , some like confident , some want a little danger , same as blokes , were all diff ..... but long term someone that likes doing the same things as you , will lead to a long term romance 
if you meet someone that you think is hot and she thinks your hot , it will be sex sex sex , but then when that wears off , what have you in common nothing so then you will split ... done been there lol , its enjoying doing things together , that keeps you together
if you meet someone that you think is hot and she thinks your hot , it will be sex sex sex , but then when that wears off , what have you in common nothing so then you will split ... done been there lol , its enjoying doing things together , that keeps you together 
Luna1740
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depends on the girl , some like shy , some like confident , some want a little danger , same as blokes , were all diff ..... but long term someone that likes doing the same things as you , will lead to a long term romance
Just summed up my last 2 relationships
DanFC
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Please. Despite how awesome I think Timothy Olyphant is, especially in Justified now, he doesn't hold a candle to George Thorogood as being a bad-ass.
Luke1993
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I think you may have just struck gold there!
1 no 2 yes..
madness_lover
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I don't see why people can't be a combination of all of those at the same time. Girls are not a group to have the same mentality on every aspect, especially men. So I guess that depends on the person.
I prefer the intellectual/nerd/funny/sweet/sincere/mature & responsible/adventurous/artistic types myself.
I prefer the intellectual/nerd/funny/sweet/sincere/mature & responsible/adventurous/artistic types myself
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coyote
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I prefer the intellectual/nerd/funny/sweet/sincere/mature & responsible/adventurous/artistic types myself
Hey - that's me!
Oh, wait...I forgot - I'm neither mature nor responsible.
seafolly
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I'm afraid I have to beg to differ with the guys who are not worth a girl's time...my younger sister is notorious for picking those ones convinced she can change them. She never succeeds.
I think in younger years girls are more likely to try different personalities as most don't know what they want at that age. I dated a musician briefly, then a jock, then a nerdy intellectual. That was in high school. I never looked at labels (clearly) but had an eye out for personality traits. The following might sound a little confusing. Self confidence is nice, but egos are downright repulsive. Being able to see the positive sides of things is good too. This isn't to say if a guy vents he's instantly unattractive, actually it's nice being trusted enough to talk to about personal woes, but someone who can make the best of a situation and smile even when feeling low is appealing. Above all, a kind heart.
I've over simplified this but it's true that every girl is going to be looking for something different.
I think in younger years girls are more likely to try different personalities as most don't know what they want at that age. I dated a musician briefly, then a jock, then a nerdy intellectual. That was in high school. I never looked at labels (clearly) but had an eye out for personality traits. The following might sound a little confusing. Self confidence is nice, but egos are downright repulsive. Being able to see the positive sides of things is good too. This isn't to say if a guy vents he's instantly unattractive, actually it's nice being trusted enough to talk to about personal woes, but someone who can make the best of a situation and smile even when feeling low is appealing. Above all, a kind heart.
I've over simplified this but it's true that every girl is going to be looking for something different.
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awkwardamanda
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I want a geeky/nerdy guy with a good sense of humour. Preferably more on the shy side.
