twiggle
Well-known member
I've decided to hog a whole thread to myself and create a 'journal' of sorts. This will probably consist of most of the things I usually post in the 'How are you feeling' and random thoughts thread, but would rather put here because then at least people have a choice over whether or not they read it.
I've tried to write this post several times now but each time I've ended up erasing a whole wall of text about the nature of my anxiety and where it came from. Because let's not dwell on that. I'll only say that my anxiety isn't the most physically debilitating... I can go out and do all the things most people do... I'm shy but once I know people well enough I am fine to open up and mix. My anxiety is more about fear and paranoia of upsetting and losing the people I care about. And it can cause me to worry a lot. And such worry sometimes stops me from doing the things I really want to do... the things that would make my life a lot better.
Over the past year I've really managed to identify the fact that I have anxiety issues. Last Summer was a very depressing time for me but I learnt a lot from it and it all made me stronger. It made me understand myself a lot better and realise that a lot of the times in which I'm unhappy, it's because I feel I've not done enough to avoid being that way/prevent whatever made me feel that way from happening. I've noticed that if something bad happens I can deal with a lot easier if I feel as though I couldn't have done anything more to stop it.
So my idea these days is just to do my best and then whatever happens, happens. Things are never going to be easy. People aren't always going to like me (especially since I'm so "weird" haha) But whatever happens, I'll deal with it somehow.
There's no real reason to putting this journal here now exactly but I just thought I'd set it up so that it's here when I need to come back to it. Maybe over time I'll explain about why I am as paranoid as I am, or various other characteristics of my anxiety and feelings. But let's leave it here for now. I'll update this maybe once or twice a fortnight if not before... but not very often, I don't want to clog up the forum haha. Maybe I'll even delete it after a while haha.
But, hello anyway
I've tried to write this post several times now but each time I've ended up erasing a whole wall of text about the nature of my anxiety and where it came from. Because let's not dwell on that. I'll only say that my anxiety isn't the most physically debilitating... I can go out and do all the things most people do... I'm shy but once I know people well enough I am fine to open up and mix. My anxiety is more about fear and paranoia of upsetting and losing the people I care about. And it can cause me to worry a lot. And such worry sometimes stops me from doing the things I really want to do... the things that would make my life a lot better.
Over the past year I've really managed to identify the fact that I have anxiety issues. Last Summer was a very depressing time for me but I learnt a lot from it and it all made me stronger. It made me understand myself a lot better and realise that a lot of the times in which I'm unhappy, it's because I feel I've not done enough to avoid being that way/prevent whatever made me feel that way from happening. I've noticed that if something bad happens I can deal with a lot easier if I feel as though I couldn't have done anything more to stop it.
So my idea these days is just to do my best and then whatever happens, happens. Things are never going to be easy. People aren't always going to like me (especially since I'm so "weird" haha) But whatever happens, I'll deal with it somehow.
There's no real reason to putting this journal here now exactly but I just thought I'd set it up so that it's here when I need to come back to it. Maybe over time I'll explain about why I am as paranoid as I am, or various other characteristics of my anxiety and feelings. But let's leave it here for now. I'll update this maybe once or twice a fortnight if not before... but not very often, I don't want to clog up the forum haha. Maybe I'll even delete it after a while haha.
But, hello anyway
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