When I talk to people many times I do say the wrong thing to them; not on purpose. I was talking to a lady in the store about school and I told her I wanted to be a sociologist because I couldn't even think of what I was going to school to be. I didn't correct myself because I couldn't think of the right thing until the conversation finished. I had one of those moments where my brain was not up to speed.
I did it the other day ordering my food, I forgot to put the condiments on my sandwich and I remembered it after I pulled out my wallet and I was too scared to speak up. Lucky for me that sandwich was delicious if not better. I don't like to stutter in front of people, my stuttering is horrible. I do take it slow, maybe it's my nerves. I wasn't extremely nervous, just a little bit. Do you say the wrong things and forget things sometimes? How do you handle it?
Sometimes, but not all the time I do it to avoid freezing because I can freeze for a long time. I rather exude fake confidence and fake it to make it, than to stand there, turn reddish and start shaking because people can be cruel and not be understanding of anxiety. I pretend to be confident so my body want give into those symptoms.
I did it the other day ordering my food, I forgot to put the condiments on my sandwich and I remembered it after I pulled out my wallet and I was too scared to speak up. Lucky for me that sandwich was delicious if not better. I don't like to stutter in front of people, my stuttering is horrible. I do take it slow, maybe it's my nerves. I wasn't extremely nervous, just a little bit. Do you say the wrong things and forget things sometimes? How do you handle it?
Sometimes, but not all the time I do it to avoid freezing because I can freeze for a long time. I rather exude fake confidence and fake it to make it, than to stand there, turn reddish and start shaking because people can be cruel and not be understanding of anxiety. I pretend to be confident so my body want give into those symptoms.