Really unercomfortable with sex talk...

Bronson99

Well-known member
My idiotic advice for becoming comfortable with it, is to go out and get some. If you have such desires. Some people are asexual and don't have the urge for it.

Again, don't be offended--this is idiotic and simple minded advice. I don't always like to be PC. :giggle:
 

laure15

Well-known member
I am uncomfortable around sex talk too, but people have the right to discuss anything, including sex. There are some people who are asexual, which is nothing to be ashamed of btw. Everyone has different needs (or lack of). If you find yourself surrounded by people talking about sex, just let them be. You can't change who they are, but also avoid being a people pleaser. It can be awkward because you have nothing to contribute to the discussion, but try to be in the present moment and just listen without judging. Just like when someone is giving you a boring speech but running away would be rude, so you must give your undivided attention and listen out of politeness.
 

AGR

Well-known member
I read this thread again,I dont think that because someone has a small member that they are doomed,girls comes in all sizes too,its not all of them that need a humongous thing,there are petite girls,for example,I work with a lot of filipinas who are very petite,yet they still have curves,vietnamese too,some japanese even when they are tall their frame tend to be small,they are still beautiful,if you are small just search for small girls.
 

ukmale

Well-known member
I read this thread again,I dont think that because someone has a small member that they are doomed,girls comes in all sizes too,its not all of them that need a humongous thing,there are petite girls,for example,I work with a lot of filipinas who are very petite,yet they still have curves,vietnamese too,some japanese even when they are tall their frame tend to be small,they are still beautiful,if you are small just search for small girls.



Lol thanks for the hope but sadly its really that bad sadly how am I suppose to feel like a man if I have to sit down to pee truly I can't except myself so no women will never except a guy that can't except himself easy as that paranoia ect will set it ect so yeah I'm doomed as would drive people away .. I don't feel like I man feel like a freak most guys wanna be bigger to be a pornstar I just wanna feel like a man and pee standing up its that bad hmmmm live hey given the short end of the stick really wish I wasn't born really not a life to live really anit
 
As far as uncomfortable with it, it don't bother me. However, I find it in poor taste. I could care less about co workers' sex lives. Some people have no tact.
 

jaim38

Well-known member
Lol thanks for the hope but sadly its really that bad sadly how am I suppose to feel like a man if I have to sit down to pee truly I can't except myself so no women will never except a guy that can't except himself easy as that paranoia ect will set it ect so yeah I'm doomed as would drive people away .. I don't feel like I man feel like a freak most guys wanna be bigger to be a pornstar I just wanna feel like a man and pee standing up its that bad hmmmm live hey given the short end of the stick really wish I wasn't born really not a life to live really anit

This may be just me, but there are more important things in life than having women and sex. For some people, it's spirituality, for others it's intelligence, etc.
 

ukmale

Well-known member
This may be just me, but there are more important things in life than having women and sex. For some people, it's spirituality, for others it's intelligence, etc.


How do I change my signature I forget now

So damn true think im gonna become a monk I'm gonna live a life of being alone forever hmmm just me and the log cabin in the woods
 

NathanielWingatePeaslee

Iä! Iä! Cthulhu fhtagn!
Staff member
can't really cuddle my sister baby knowing I will never have kids
This is crap. I can't have kids either, owing to being on chemotherapy for more than 10 years. I can still see babies as cute and appreciate other peoples' children. You do not need a big penis to hold a child. You're just looking for something else to complain about.
ukmale said:
how am I suppose to feel like a man if I have to sit down to pee
Guess what? I usually sit down to pee too. For ages, frothy urine meant my kidneys were about to go balls-up again. It got to the point where even seeing a little froth in my pee started to freak me out. Eventually I realized that standing up and peeing means the pee in the toilet will be a bit frothy, and if I just sat down to do it I wouldn't scare myself all the time.

Sitting down to pee isn't an actual problem.

How you view it is a problem that you have created for yourself.

If your penis is so small, why in the name of Jehova would you let some girl take pictures of it? Or even show it to some girl you don't know very well? Being drunk is an excuse for nothing. Even if it were, this is another problem you have created.

If you've actually been housebound for 8 years, how did you manage to go out and be all 'partying' and trying to get laid with strangers to begin with? You've made references to going downtown, drinking and clubbing. Which is it? Or if that happened 8 years ago, strange women are still putting their hands down your pants and/or ridiculing for it? Something isn't adding up here.

No way to enjoy life at all? More crap. I had a great meal last night--caught, cleaned, and cooked my own fish. Fantastic. Didn't use my penis once! Perhaps you eat in a different way. I also don't tend to use my penis when I'm watching a movie, or playing Axis and Allies with my friends, or taking pictures, or swimming, or a whole lot of other things.

Self-pity is addictive. It's also easy. It's also a great way to make sure there's never any improvement in your life.
 

ukmale

Well-known member
To hold something else child , I dream of having my own family my own child setting down ect but I can't can I .don't truly like your tone don't need a big penis to hold what my younger sisters baby yeah but would like to settle down have my own family my own kids what women is gonna stay around when I'm hung like a mouse lol



Sick of this world I'm leaving il try my luck in the next one
 

Odo

Banned
I think it depends on the context and the nature.

There's a difference between being in a small circle of friends and discussing generalities and being among co-workers or strangers and discussing specifics.

Hearing a play-by-play makes me physically ill, but just generally talking about it is usually okay.
 
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