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DeadmanWalking

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I don't have any friends here at college and it's really starting to eat at me. If I didn't have SPW, I'd probably have broken a long time ago. So, thank you everyone for keeping my sanity meter above "broken":D!

On another note, I just finished one paper and got two more in return! I want to rest for two seconds and catch my breath:mad:!
 

philly2bits

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I don't have any friends here at college and it's really starting to eat at me. If I didn't have SPW, I'd probably have broken a long time ago. So, thank you everyone for keeping my sanity meter above "broken":D!

On another note, I just finished one paper and got two more in return! I want to rest for two seconds and catch my breath:mad:!

Even though I'm pretty sure I've never talked to you before, you're welcome.
 

Phoenixx

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I don't have any friends here at college and it's really starting to eat at me. If I didn't have SPW, I'd probably have broken a long time ago. So, thank you everyone for keeping my sanity meter above "broken":D!

On another note, I just finished one paper and got two more in return! I want to rest for two seconds and catch my breath:mad:!
^ I know exactly how you feel. I don't have any friends here either, and it eats away at me too. I try not to let it get to me too much though. I have a few other friends elsewhere, it just sucks I can never see them. SPW helps me a lot too, thankfully. :)

Good luck on those papers! Take a break when you feel you need to. I always find it best to work, then take small breaks in between instead of working all the way through.
 

DeadmanWalking

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i almost cried in class today...why can't i interact like a normal person!!! I'm so awkward i hate this sooooooo much. :::(:

Please don't beat yourself up so much about it. Don't force interaction with others; instead, let it come naturally. Take small steps, like looking people in the eye and smiling. It'll take time and it may not seem like much, but you're building yourself up for actually talking to people. You can't be good at everything and it's alright to feel frustrated, but take that frustration and turn it into productive energy. You're perfectly fine, I promise.
 

alwaysrunning

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thanks dead man, I've been doing that but this class is "community based" ,only 10 students, and needs deeper interction than I'm used to.

the professor sensed i was about to cry so he stopped lecturing me on how i messed up the assignment afterwards he told me i need to work more on feeling comfortable with the class instead of working by myself in a corner. I don't know if i can do that =/
 

DeadmanWalking

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thanks dead man, I've been doing that but this class is "community based" ,only 10 students, and needs deeper interction than I'm used to.

the professor sensed i was about to cry so he stopped lecturing me on how i messed up the assignment afterwards he told me i need to work more on feeling comfortable with the class instead of working by myself in a corner. I don't know if i can do that =/

You can do whatever you believe you can. Just try to make some friends in there, even if it's only one. I can't promise that it's going to be easy, but I can promise that it is possible. The next time you get into a group, try talking to your partner and seeing if they would like to hang out with you. If one rejects you, then move on to the next one. Eventually, someone will say yes. Other than that, the only things I can offer are words of comfort and hugs, like the one I'm going to give to you now::p:. *hugs* If you ever need advice, all you need to do is ask, alright?
 

Agent_Violet

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thanks dead man, I've been doing that but this class is "community based" ,only 10 students, and needs deeper interction than I'm used to.

the professor sensed i was about to cry so he stopped lecturing me on how i messed up the assignment afterwards he told me i need to work more on feeling comfortable with the class instead of working by myself in a corner. I don't know if i can do that =/

And the professor needs to work more on understanding not everyone is a follower and a joiner and that some people are smart enough to stand alone from the group and do their own work.

Professors are sometimes really dumb for being so smart.
 

alwaysrunning

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You can do whatever you believe you can. Just try to make some friends in there, even if it's only one. I can't promise that it's going to be easy, but I can promise that it is possible. The next time you get into a group, try talking to your partner and seeing if they would like to hang out with you. If one rejects you, then move on to the next one. Eventually, someone will say yes. Other than that, the only things I can offer are words of comfort and hugs, like the one I'm going to give to you now::p:. *hugs* If you ever need advice, all you need to do is ask, alright?


thanks dead man, for the hug and all too =).
 
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