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MikeyC

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I think I like someone just because I like the idea of having a boyfriend. I'm scared there won't be another guy who will like me and that if I don't like this guy I won't ever find anyone. I've already been single for 4 years because of my anxiety. I don't want to be single anymore. But I'm not attracted to this guy.
Is this the guy you've been dating? If you don't like him, end it, because you will break his heart.

You will definitely find other guys. You're a sweet, caring girl and you're still young so time is absolutely on your side!
 

kristina303

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It is him. Something happened between us and he's acting different. Like he doesn't like me much anymore. And it hurts because I want a boyfriend so badly but at the same time I don't like him. I don't want to end it but it looks like I'm going to have to. Great.
 

hoddesdon

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It is him. Something happened between us and he's acting different. Like he doesn't like me much anymore. And it hurts because I want a boyfriend so badly but at the same time I don't like him. I don't want to end it but it looks like I'm going to have to. Great.

If you do not like him, then he is not an appropriate boyfriend; so if he does not like you, then that is a way to resolve the situation.
 

MikeyC

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It is him. Something happened between us and he's acting different. Like he doesn't like me much anymore. And it hurts because I want a boyfriend so badly but at the same time I don't like him. I don't want to end it but it looks like I'm going to have to. Great.
Don't rush it. He's obviously not the one for you and there's millions of guys out there waiting in line for you. :) Just be patient and you'll find a great man.
 

Starry

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I'm very concerned about the state of the world... So much is controlled by the rich/banking/corporations, it's scary... (Seriously, my husband and I have noted down so many things which are all inter-connected with "big names" in the financial world... Things you would never even dream of...) And politicians, of course, only lie to get elected, they never follow through with their "promises"... Not to mention the propaganda techniques which are used to sway people to the opinion they want... So we, the people have practically no control at all, despite all the claims of "democracy".
 

MikeyC

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I'm very concerned about the state of the world... So much is controlled by the rich/banking/corporations, it's scary... (Seriously, my husband and I have noted down so many things which are all inter-connected with "big names" in the financial world... Things you would never even dream of...) And politicians, of course, only lie to get elected, they never follow through with their "promises"... Not to mention the propaganda techniques which are used to sway people to the opinion they want... So we, the people have practically no control at all, despite all the claims of "democracy".
"The illusion of choice." It doesn't matter which politician you vote for, because they're all the same.

I think about this stuff a lot, but I'm trying not to. It's a depressing thought and best not to go crazy over.
 

Srijita52

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Pretty sad right now.
What's wrong?
It is him. Something happened between us and he's acting different. Like he doesn't like me much anymore. And it hurts because I want a boyfriend so badly but at the same time I don't like him. I don't want to end it but it looks like I'm going to have to. Great.
I agree with Mikey, there're many other guys out there and I'm sure you'll find someone real soon. I can totally relate with feeling desperate though.
 

Srijita52

Well-known member
Pretty sad right now.
What's wrong?
It is him. Something happened between us and he's acting different. Like he doesn't like me much anymore. And it hurts because I want a boyfriend so badly but at the same time I don't like him. I don't want to end it but it looks like I'm going to have to. Great.
I agree with Mikey, there're many other guys out there and I'm sure you'll find someone real soon. I can totally relate with feeling desperate though.
 

Starry

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If you only watch tv through the internet and don't buy papers. You'll never see the news. The propaganda machine won't work on you and you'll realize how nice people always are. It's worked for me.

I don't watch television at all (bar one or two programmes I download), and I check lots of online news sources to get the best spread of news possible. Propaganda doesn't work on me because I can see it a mile away...
 

springk

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why doesnt my post appears on recent posts???? i know no one will answer . its really sad.
may be someone will answer here.
can you please tell me how can i deactivate my account on the forum?
i see no option.

its not that i want to delete my account here. its for other forums that i dont visit and i want to delete it.
help !!
 

Srijita52

Well-known member
why doesnt my post appears on recent posts???? i know no one will answer . its really sad.
may be someone will answer here.
can you please tell me how can i deactivate my account on the forum?
i see no option.

its not that i want to delete my account here. its for other forums that i dont visit and i want to delete it.
help !!

I'm not an expert in this but maybe you can PM a mod.
 

MNM322

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Lucky charms for breakfast today! YUM been my favorite cereal since childhood

Later today, zoo with baby tiger cubs
 

coyote

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I think I like someone just because I like the idea of having a boyfriend. I'm scared there won't be another guy who will like me and that if I don't like this guy I won't ever find anyone. I've already been single for 4 years because of my anxiety. I don't want to be single anymore. But I'm not attracted to this guy.

that's the whole purpose of dating - meet different people and find out what works for you and what doesn't

it's a trial and error process.

learn from each experience so that when you do finally meet "the one", you'll be able to hopefully make fewer mistakes :]
 

Gaucho

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i have a problem with women. first of all. i can only see them as potential girlfriends, i can't imagine having girls as a friend.
now the more important part, i can't talk to women. today i was sitting in this place, and these 2 lovely girls next to me were giggling for like 30 min, ok maybe not about me, but maybe yes. the point is that i lost my mind and didn't even felt like a human anymore, i felt huge insecurities, like i would kill myself before talking to them.
other scenario, i was sitting in a place and my mobile phone went out of battery, i asked if maybe this nice girl had a charger in her bag (because she had the same mobile), she said maybe and started searching in her bag for 5 mins, in that short time couldn't talk anymore, i got so nervous that words didn't want to come out of my mouth.
 

Beatmetrics

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Ever get the urge to go up to the oppostie sex (who kinda catches your eye) at the store and just start shoving things in your cart then smile at them and say "Sorry, i live alone and I'm single as well so I just have to make sure I get the necessities." I know it's not appropriate but I sooo want to some time just for the fun.
 
I generally avoid the political debates because I just get mad and end up yelling at the television, but I might have to watch Obama vs. Romney tonight. I'm hoping for some fireworks!
 
I have a general question I need to ask, and do feel free to answer freely and honestly (in a private message if you prefer).

In your personal experience, do I come across too controversial and/or ''too-much-information''-ey? I don't feel like I do, but I often get the feeling people think that. I'm not heroically great at analysing my own behaviour in that regard.

If you do think that, I'd like to know. I wouldn't be mad. It's like with body odour, I'd rather know about it then socially stink up the place.
 

coyote

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I have a general question I need to ask, and do feel free to answer freely and honestly (in a private message if you prefer).

In your personal experience, do I come across too controversial and/or ''too-much-information''-ey? I don't feel like I do, but I often get the feeling people think that. I'm not heroically great at analysing my own behaviour in that regard.

If you do think that, I'd like to know. I wouldn't be mad. It's like with body odour, I'd rather know about it then socially stink up the place.

i don't think you come across either way
 
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