Re: una cervasa por favor
There's more to Spain than a place to get drunk.
Oh I do know.
I was studying Architecture at the time, and Barcelona was a bonanza for that, Gaudí for starters. Even the bus shelters were beautifully designed. (That's true here now too, but it certainly wasn't in 1990.) Public space was important.
And speaking of public space, I'd see people having raging arguments in the street, and when they were done, they would kiss each on the cheek and go on their way.
Here we seem to have inherited English emotional uptightness. A Polish friend described to me a scene at an airport, where two kiwi males who were obviously very pleased to see each other had to make do with punches on the arm. My friend, from a more demonstrative culture, was like "hug already!"