I wish you weren't so frustrated on a daily basis Graeme as much as i struggle with being bored/lonely on a almost daily basis nowadays but I'm glad that you really have your musical interest. I have faith that this situation will be sorted out.
But my mother doesn’t seem all that interested in changing her way, or looking after herself properly.
It’s like watching an alcoholic or drug addict in the grip of their addiction, and yer trying to get through to them. But, they just shrug off yer concerns as if they mean nothing, and go back to slowly killing themselves.