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SilentAndShy

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Some people really do make a huge drama out of every thing in a professional environment - one example of miscommunication, and everyone turns into schoolkids waiting to tell the teacher breathlessly about what happened, thus leading to an item agenda on the team meeting that I would say will be implicitly referencing me rather than the whole team. FFS, hope I get a job with mature adults than fucking teenagers who snitch at the drop of a dime!
 

planemo

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I hate when you view me as an emotional punching bag. I understand people get upset when there's issues, problems, and obstacles in their lives, but to make me as the scapegoat for your life not being perfect? Someone who has zero impact on those situations which you dislike. To blame me and use me as an object to vent your frustration is just beyond words.

What's worst, is that you claim others treated you in similar ways in the past, which from your point of view is virtually unforgivable. So it's wrong when it's done to you, but completely fine, if you do it to others? Oh no, not everyone though, just a worthless piece of trash like me, right?
 
Ah hate how you will constantly be negative about things. Am I supposed to huv sympathy for ye, like? Then ye hud the nerve to tell me ya hate when I’m not here. How many times over the years did you just piss off somewhere without telling me? So, I can’t go anywhere but you can, huh? Does’nae really surprised me considering how controlling you been over the years, really.

The sad part, though, is how you ruined the relationship you have with me. Oh, am the favourite; the yin kid you had that ye actually get along with. Yet, I’m the one who always nagging and getting on at ye, when I’m only trying to make things better for you. I’m the one who gets treated like shit aw the time; but the second I get pissed off at you, I’m the bad yin.

How come we never hang out together anymore? Remember when we spend the weekend watching TV shows that we both liked? Heck, when the last time we watched the original Star Wars trilogy over a weekend? Ah miss them days. :cry: Now, whenever ah come downstairs, yer laying on couch. Lookin’ knackered, and staring at me like you rather I go back upstairs to my room n’ just leave ye be. Oh, that’s not how it is, well it’s the impression ah git. So, sorry...
 

theoutsider

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Just because I forgave you didn't mean I was giving any of you the green light to go back to the way things were before. Sorry, I'll never let my guards down around you people again just so that you can feel comfortable enough to repeat the performance. You're not friends, you're ex associates who I used to associate with. Now a simple, pleasant, "Hello, how's it going?" is all I can manage and remain sincere. I refuse to be fake and pretend to be interested beyond that. Oh, you're offended that I don't greet you like old friends now? Sorry, you lost that privilege a long time ago. Let that be a lesson in how you treat others in the future. You can go ahead and label me as the bad guy. Your opinions don't matter to me, never did.
 
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I am genuinely getting pissed off with how you treat me. :mad: And ya think it’s a fuckin’ joke, don’t ye?

Aye, cuz it’s funny how ya continue to speak to me like am a fuckin’ child, isn’t it? Just cuz am the youngest. Oh, it’s a right laugh. Being talked down to by folk who are dumber than ye, innit? Then there’s the fact that that every-fuckin’-time ah ask anything of ye, ya just give excuse after excuse. Yet, am fuckin’ guilt tripped into doing stuff by you and my sister. Because, as has been clear that last few years, you lot cannae fuckin’ stand being told “No”. Me, on the hand...

Ah’ve just hud to get use to being let down aw the time by family. Kinda difficult to trust folk when they’ll lie to ya, and promise ya something that they huv nae intent of doing for ya. After awhile ya just stop take ‘me at their word.
 
Just because I forgave you didn't mean I was giving any of you the green light to go back to the way things were before. Sorry, I'll never let my guards down around you people again just so that you can feel comfortable enough to repeat the performance. You're not friends, you're ex associates who I used to associate with. Now a simple, pleasant, "Hello, how's it going?" is all I can manage and remain sincere. I refuse to be fake and pretend to be interested beyond that. Oh, you're offended that I don't greet you like old friends now? Sorry, you lost that privilege a long time ago. Let that be a lesson in how you treat others in the future. You can go ahead and label me as the bad guy. Your opinions don't matter to me, never did.
Well said (y)
 

SilentAndShy

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You know a conversation? It can be two way ya know. It doesn't always have to be me initiating how your weekend/holiday was, how did this event go etc. You - yes, you - can start up a conversation even though I'm ten years away in a nearby office. Try it, it's nice. I'll appreciate it but you know you all, I'm not going to show my face to people who don't want to engage. If that alienates me even more to the office, then so be it. Tired of trying to be conversationalist with people who either don't want to, or can't be bothered to do the same in return.
So yeah, what a surprise this hasn't changed. It doesn't help working with people immature, and over their heads, combined with willing and unnecessary support from people above than actual criticism or condemnation.
 
Loud. Obnoxious. Inconsiderate. Domineering. Judgemental. Aggressive. Unfriendly.
And that just a few words that come to mind to describe you... Never change, sis !
 

SoScared

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I'm surrounded by liars and deceit. A couple of people come to mind and yes there was a suicide. I wish I had the skills to compartmentalize people and somehow always remember how nasty they are in the past and probably will be in the future whilst still doing the requisite conversation. I know, I talk to them and think your a **** and always will be a ****. Maybe you helped kill her and the other one may help kill me. He seems to be doing a job of it.
 
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