[Poll] Relationship Status

[Emily_G]

LOL, what did you expect? This is a forum for insane people, depressed people, people who have no confidence and no life, people who feel very lonely, people who are ashamed of themselves one way or another... Lots of people are virgins here... it's not surprising.

This makes me upset, but I'm not sure how to put it into words.

 

[userremoved]

This makes me upset, but I'm not sure how to put it into words.

You should be happy, you're one of the lucky few here that was blessed with a love life.

 

[Emily_G]

You should be happy, you're one of the lucky few here that was blessed with a love life.

Yes, I know first hand that people with problems can find an amazing person who loves them with all their hearts. Maybe that's why those kinds of comments make me upset.

 

[Nicholas]

Emily, I'm sorry that I made you upset. It was just a random exaggerated way to say that it's not surprising that the majority of the members seem to be single. I would be surprised if it were otherwise.

 

[TheStatue]

Single and not even knowing how to look. But I keep my eyes open, just in case.

 

[Emily_G]

Emily, I'm sorry that I made you upset. It was just a random exaggerated way to say that it's not surprising that the majority of the members seem to be single. I would be surprised if it were otherwise.

You didn't make me upset, just statements/attitudes like the one you stated I guess. I can understand that maybe people with SA, OCD, etc. don't meet as many people because of their condition....but IMO those things themselves won't keep them from finding a good person that loves them. IDK, I try to stay optimistic about life, love, etc.

 

[NickyNacker]

Single & not looking.. I'm too unhappy with myself to begin to think about a relationship

 

[illuminationSP]

I want a girlfriend.

 

[gio289]

rather complicated

 

[iamthenra]

I want a girlfriend.

I've wanted a girlfriend ever since I was 10.... I've never had a girl friend, and dang it I am a good person, I deserve one at least one before I die an old man...

 

[Krista]

Since posting I'm newly single, ah well. All's well that ends well.

 

[illuminationSP]

I've wanted a girlfriend ever since I was 10.... I've never had a girl friend, and dang it I am a good person, I deserve one at least one before I die an old man...

PREACH ON BROTHA, PREACH! WHOOO!

YouTube - Holy Ghost Out Pouring !!!

 

[Brokenx]

PREACH ON BROTHA, PREACH! WHOOO!

YouTube - Holy Ghost Out Pouring !!!

LOL very random

 

[illuminationSP]

LOL very random

lol, I was just agreeing with what he said.

 

[Stacey89]

Well me and my boyfriend of two years broke up today so I am single and definitely not looking.

 

[Lenna C]

I'm single and there's little hope for me.
Apparently I'm looking (I'm waiting is more precisely, cause I'm doing nothing actually), but it seems I really don't want anything to find.

 

[Elad]

Needs to be an option for just single. I'm not looking but I'm not not looking either.. I guess not looking but open to possibilities

 

[The Nephilim]

I am very lucky to have an understanding partner.

 

[MarkW]

Single & not looking. I need to learn to at least like myself before i love another.

Maybe that's the wrong approach. Perhaps one must learn to like another, in order to learn to like oneself. Just food for thought.

 

[Nicholas]

Single & not looking. I need to learn to at least like myself before i love another.

Maybe that's the wrong approach. Perhaps one must learn to like another, in order to learn to like oneself. Just food for thought.

But the others are not exactly like us. If you focus too much on the others, then you might start to wish you were like them... And that is not good, because we aren't all the same, and each of us is unique. Also, if you think your value must depend on someone else, then you might end up wanting that person to love you. That usually leads to unhealthy and obsessive relationships, where people obsess over someone who can't love them back. Just food for thought, again.