this_portrait
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Is anyone rather picky when it comes to dating?
I know, right... We have social anxiety (and possibly other issues), therefore we have no RIGHT to be picky and should just take whatever we can get. Amirite?
Dunno about anyone else here, but I say **** that.
Lately I've been frustrated (well, annoyed and disgusted are better words to describe it) at all the bad luck I've been having. I'm just not interested in 99% of the dudes who message and/or approach me, and I've gotten to the point where I just feel pissed off to the point of tears whenever it happens. I find myself thinking, "Really? THAT'S all that wants me?"
Then a nagging part of me feels like a bitch for thinking and feeling that way, but I can't help it. It all just feels so unfair, and I don't think I should have to be stuck with someone I'm not attracted to just because I can't find anyone I AM attracted to, or because I have this damn condition that makes socializing difficult.
I had doubts about posting this because I feared I would get nasty "oh boo ****ing hoo" responses, but screw it. I need to get it out.
I know, right... We have social anxiety (and possibly other issues), therefore we have no RIGHT to be picky and should just take whatever we can get. Amirite?
Dunno about anyone else here, but I say **** that.
Lately I've been frustrated (well, annoyed and disgusted are better words to describe it) at all the bad luck I've been having. I'm just not interested in 99% of the dudes who message and/or approach me, and I've gotten to the point where I just feel pissed off to the point of tears whenever it happens. I find myself thinking, "Really? THAT'S all that wants me?"
Then a nagging part of me feels like a bitch for thinking and feeling that way, but I can't help it. It all just feels so unfair, and I don't think I should have to be stuck with someone I'm not attracted to just because I can't find anyone I AM attracted to, or because I have this damn condition that makes socializing difficult.
I had doubts about posting this because I feared I would get nasty "oh boo ****ing hoo" responses, but screw it. I need to get it out.