I would say, honestly, I am picky when it comes to dating and also I have certain deal breakers that need to be cleared out if I were to fully commit myself in being in a relationship with the person I'm with. I could NEVER go out with someone who is tall, Hollywood male model looking type with no personality. I can't see myself around these kind of people in a relationship because it just feels awkward. I don't want to be someone's rag doll whom they have control over. I certainly don't want to be dominated either, although I know that plenty of girls like guys who take control in a relationship. Now, I prefer a guy the same height as me and at least someone that I can be myself around, instead of being treated like a barbie princess who gets anything she wants.
Even when I look at other relationships like the one my sister currently has. She and her husband aren't the typical lovey dove couple, but they are able to joke around with each other like friends and talk to each other about anything that goes on in their life. That's the relationship I'd like to have, not just some soppy, fairy tale romance. I'd like to act as if I'm not trying to impress the guy all the time, but I'm able to feel comfortable telling him exactly anything on my mind, being able to dress whatever I feel comfortable wearing in, even doing hobbies together like playing video games, ect. Just someone who is similar to me in qualities/personality.