Aussie_Lad
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I can't understand why I have this fear. I can answer a phone fine for the most part, but if making a call I try and delay it where possible or make every excuse not to dial the numbers (ie. Person might be asleep, person might be having dinner etc). I think the excuses aren't genuine though, they are made up by the ego to try and trick me into listening to them. When I am actually talking on the phone, I am usually fine, I can't remember the last time that I stuffed up a phone conversation and was embarrassed from it.
Last night, I had to call someone and I was so nervous when contemplating ringing, my ego tried the delaying tactics that it always does. When I managed to overcome this and ring, it turns out that the other person was worse than I was. He was stammering a little at times, and he is the person with quite a number of friends and a healthy social life. I didn't stammer once, yet I am the one with the phobia. So why the fear?
Last night, I had to call someone and I was so nervous when contemplating ringing, my ego tried the delaying tactics that it always does. When I managed to overcome this and ring, it turns out that the other person was worse than I was. He was stammering a little at times, and he is the person with quite a number of friends and a healthy social life. I didn't stammer once, yet I am the one with the phobia. So why the fear?