Waybuloo
Well-known member
For the reason that People find you more interesting if you are reserved or aloof, rather than if you just admit you are a jibbering wreck or can't make friends or relate to people and hence act avoidant. I speak from personal experience. My friend who emails me often and always replies ASAP to my uninteresting emails found out about my problems and no longer acts the same. It can't be because she's busy because she's always been busy yet she was able to respond to me quickly before. I dont' really have a problem with this change but it just made me realise and want to share with you. Be prepared for people to want to distance themselves a bit, if not totally, if you confide in them about your fears and shortcomings.
If anyone has different experiences i'd be interested to hear.
If anyone has different experiences i'd be interested to hear.