Hero
Well-known member
I have a really big problem. A really big heart.
When I meet someone I really like, they take over my soul. I can't stop thinking about them. Check phone. Check FB. Anxiety. Tension. Sometimes I can't eat. And I love to eat!!
Some people perceive this as desperate or clingy. But I have no role models, no close family and all my friends are casual acquaintances. Very alone. I make an effort, am friendly with people
People perceive me as confident, but I just don't click with them enough for them to want to spend time with me. I invite acquaintances to spend time with me, but I get ignored/rejected/forgotten . Makes me feel like poo, and reinforces my neediness
(moan over) Anyway, when I meet someone who I like, they become my world. When I do meet a lady that likes me (very rarely) they are very lucky as I have a lot to give. But I have had no luck with women recently as I'm so terrified of rejection and worried I come across as Mr Desperate
Has anyone else been in this situation? And how did they cope?
When I meet someone I really like, they take over my soul. I can't stop thinking about them. Check phone. Check FB. Anxiety. Tension. Sometimes I can't eat. And I love to eat!!
Some people perceive this as desperate or clingy. But I have no role models, no close family and all my friends are casual acquaintances. Very alone. I make an effort, am friendly with people
People perceive me as confident, but I just don't click with them enough for them to want to spend time with me. I invite acquaintances to spend time with me, but I get ignored/rejected/forgotten . Makes me feel like poo, and reinforces my neediness
(moan over) Anyway, when I meet someone who I like, they become my world. When I do meet a lady that likes me (very rarely) they are very lucky as I have a lot to give. But I have had no luck with women recently as I'm so terrified of rejection and worried I come across as Mr Desperate
Has anyone else been in this situation? And how did they cope?
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