I don't really get it. I mean I can sort of comprehend what you mean by you wanting to share that there are good things and bad things that happen here and in the outside world, and how people aren't what they seem...but you elaborating on this in a later post kind of piqued many people's interest. It's as though you're trying to see how many people will give this thread attention, while you're not providing us with much of anything to help you with. I absolutely don't mean to put you on the spot, I'm just explaining what it seems like. This got me and many others (surely) curious, and aside from that, maybe we can help you. I don't see the problem in you telling us what happened if the person isn't here anymore. It's horrible that this person did something awful and I totally understand, but don't start a thread like this if you're not planning to share. If it's hard to talk about then it's alright and it's fine to keep it to yourself.