for me, the worst part these days is knowing that i am the cause of another human being having to go through the same thing. the medical community is just now starting to acknowledge that many causes of SA are most likely genetic (mine being NLD)...
my son is a really great kid - who is going to have a hellish time ahead of him. on the bright side, however, at least they finally have names for these problems - and society is becoming more understanding...albeit very slowly.
You know amthenra as much as I can relate to you I really dislike
it when people dump on themselves. Yes, I am not perfect because I do it as well but doesn't dumping on yourself make you feel worse about yourself.
I know that is what it does to me.
If this has any consolation for you I do not think you are a loser.
I mean we all have different stories in life and consequences.
What I am trying to stay you are down in the dumps, then why are you
stomping on yourself. I do it too and thinking to myself. "Man I am my own worst enemy"
Abbey I think it's wrong to put a label on your son from now.... even if you are sure that your son has 100% inherited SA from you,it is a good time right now to start fighting with it .
.these days, no one picks on him, he has a great social life and a girlfriend (yikes). even so, it didn't make everything okay in his mind...as he now suffers from body dysmorphic disorder...although society now accepts him, he doesn't accept himself.
I've been feeling that way a lot lately. I've missed out on a huge part of development from teenage years to early twenties. When I see pictures of old friends and all the fun they've had over the years and the growing up they've done, it gets me down. I will never get the time back and possibly never have those experiences. These kind of thoughts keep me awake at night. What if I never get it right? What will be the point in going on?
I'm in my early 30s now... I spent a lot of my teens and 20s hiding. It's easy to look back and regret how I've spent my time, but it doesn't serve any purpose. It just makes me feel bad. So I just look forward to the future. Sometimes the only way to fix things is to change your perspective, because really when it comes down to it, all we have is the thoughts in our minds.