I hear people say I they don't like the way I am looking, but I can't see well beyond about10ft. How can I be checking someone out when I everything is a blur.
Once while walking to school, a women looked over to me and said "hey cutie." Also, a few times I've heard hollers and honks while walking around town that could have been directed at me. And I don't exactly have movie-star good looks either. So it doesn't just happen to ladies.
I think it depends on things other than simply gender. Gender may play a role, but that in itself is dependent on other things.
discreet glances are ok. I don't care, I notice guys. Its human nature. Long pervy stares looking you up and down and remarks car honking and wolfwhistling are not ok but I honestly can't remember the last time I saw this in daylight by sober offender..I think that behaviour is dying out. I never see builders do any of that anymore like they used to. I really think social norms are changing for the better.
I think it takes some guts and/or peer pressure for men to honk horns and wolf whistle at a passing girl. I don't see it much, either, and I could never attempt it.
I even heard about a teenage kid walking up to my friend and slapping her a** but I'm not their type and have never been the recipient of their attentions. That boy would lose the use of his hand if he did that to me
No doubt. A girl once told me a man grabbed her breasts from behind. She was less than impressed.
Actually I've noticed that in terms of checking people out, I think generally, men looking at women are more discreet than women looking at women.
I agree, actually. I've checked out countless women and have never had them notice me doing it, although women looking at me or others seems to be more noticeable. Not that I'm complaining. 😉
I think it takes some guts and/or peer pressure for men to honk horns and wolf whistle at a passing girl. I don't see it much, either, and I could never attempt it.
I agree, actually. I've checked out countless women and have never had them notice me doing it, although women looking at me or others seems to be more noticeable. Not that I'm complaining. 😉
Or you think they didn't notice you're doing it. 😉
Bewbs. In my experience, if a girl with big bewbs is wearing something very low-cut and leaning over forwards a lot, I might steal a glance and then quickly look away. Girls, on the other hand, I've noticed in that same situation will gawk shamelessly. :idontknow:
Bewbs. In my experience, if a girl with big bewbs is wearing something very low-cut and leaning over forwards a lot, I might steal a glance and then quickly look away. Girls, on the other hand, I've noticed in that same situation will gawk shamelessly. :idontknow:
I guess it's more acceptable for girls to do it. I have no idea. What I do know is that I would do the same thing in this situation, haha.
Once while walking to school, a women looked over to me and said "hey cutie." Also, a few times I've heard hollers and honks while walking around town that could have been directed at me. And I don't exactly have movie-star good looks either. So it doesn't just happen to ladies.
I think it depends on things other than simply gender. Gender may play a role, but that in itself is dependent on other things.
Very rarely, I will have things like this happen. I certainly have ZERO problems with it, LOL. I won't lie: it's a simply awesome feeling to think some girl finds you attractive, or *may* find you attractive (since I guess you can't really know for certain.) I would think most guys would agree on this, too.
Yikes. I've had that, too, though. Not the man, but the woman, haha. Did you take it further? With either of them? :😛:
I prefer to live in my fantasy land where they'll never know and I can get away with it forever. 😉
I guess it's more acceptable for girls to do it. I have no idea. What I do know is that I would do the same thing in this situation, haha.
It seems then, with this particular study with a sample size of exactly 2, that it is the norm for a male aged 25 to 35 to have had his junk grabbed atleast once in his lifetime.....dear god, what am I doing wrong? I have missed out yet again 🙁 the junk grab coeffecient escapes me...
I went to a concert once and a lady came up from behind wanting to dance then she fell over on her back she was so drunk.
Another woman approached me at an ATM, and asked me if I would escort her into the nearby pub because she didn't want to go in alone. I declined. she was missing one or two teeth.
Very rarely, I will have things like this happen. I certainly have ZERO problems with it, LOL. I won't lie: it's a simply awesome feeling to think some girl finds you attractive, or *may* find you attractive (since I guess you can't really know for certain.) I would think most guys would agree on this, too.
Heh, well yes it is nice to think people find me attractive I guess, but that's not the bothersome part I don't think. I think girls too like the idea of being found attractive to people, an issue with this is that it's uncomfortable. Just the idea of people noticing and judging you wherever you go. Some people just don't like to be sized up everywhere they go by everyone they meet, you know? (which I think refers back to the origin of the thread, of not wanting to be noticed at times) With girls it might even be frightening at times, with sexual assault being so prominent and knowing that any one of these guys hooting and hollering could decide they want to more than just look whether you want them to or not.
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