Imagine your ideal relationship...

[JamesSmith]

There are so many details in every day life that I couldn't give you a run down of exactly what would happen in the relationship. My ideal relationship would consist of once thing: Happiness.

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

An ideal partner and relationship in an imaginary world....I would say someone who is intelligent, protective, supportive, loyal, loving, affectionate, enthusiastic, strong, curious, constant (not fickle)open-minded, open to new things, articulate, resourceful, understanding, considerate, positive (not sickeningly so) responsible, hard-working, knowledgeable, giving, self-aware, articulate, kind, proud, passionate, funny, appreciative, realist...

An ideal relationship in an imaginary world would be one where two people never tire of one another, where they have eyes for no one else, and are both equally passionately crazy about one another. Unconditional love, acceptance and understanding. No lying, no BS.

 

[ilmatross]

I'm in my ideal relationship right now. Shes a carbon copy of my interests while being her own caring beautiful self. Likes pokemon, videogames (good ones not a "girl gamer"), plays Starcraft 2/any new game with me/pen and paper RPGs, like good movies (she's obsessed with post apocolyptica), funny, fun to be with. She likes the music I make. Most beautiful woman I've ever seen and sexy as hell.

She challenges me to be a better person every day and keep my demons at bay while making sober life more enjoyable than drugs. I never thought that was possible. She fills a giant hole in my heart I never knew was there. She messaged me on Facebook out of the blue, randomly, and if she didn't we wouldn't be together. Im gonna marry her someday. I have no doubt in my mind I found the one. I've had other girlfriends but she transcends normal love emotions to places I can't describe or put in words.

Sorry I'm gushing. Life is good.

 

[EasySkanking]

even though i am not social phobic anymore, i still find it difficult to connect w/ women. they are so "emotionaly" unstable, that you have to be almost perfect in the way that a man says something to them, so as not to upset them and make them hate you.

i could pull that off, but it takes so much effort that i just dont ave the conditioning to do it 24 years of 'relationshp' inactivity will do this to ya

WOMEN - why cant you be more stable and understandable creatures? god! speaking of which, he has a funny sense of humor

for this reason, i think i might be alone forever. which is why i have recently stopped myself from fantasizing too much because that just makes me depressed. i prefer to focus on the things that i want to accomplish in life, my family and the good things i have in life (such as not being social phobic anymore which makes me really happy! )

maybe someday ill find someone desperate enough to date me

girls dont want honest romantic respectful sensitive uderstanding intelligent men! thats just BS. if it wanst, id be a mac daddy . what women really want (even if they dont consciosly realize it) is a controlling egotistical ruthless beast (yea i know that all you women reading this might be getting turned on already ). which is cool, but this just really sux for gys like me.

sorry, just wanted to letthis out - its a bit frustrating -_-

 

[EasySkanking]

I'm in my ideal relationship right now. Shes a carbon copy of my interests while being her own caring beautiful self. Likes pokemon, videogames (good ones not a "girl gamer"), plays Starcraft 2/any new game with me/pen and paper RPGs, like good movies (she's obsessed with post apocolyptica), funny, fun to be with. She likes the music I make. Most beautiful woman I've ever seen and sexy as hell.

She challenges me to be a better person every day and keep my demons at bay while making sober life more enjoyable than drugs. I never thought that was possible. She fills a giant hole in my heart I never knew was there. She messaged me on Facebook out of the blue, randomly, and if she didn't we wouldn't be together. Im gonna marry her someday. I have no doubt in my mind I found the one. I've had other girlfriends but she transcends normal love emotions to places I can't describe or put in words.

Sorry I'm gushing. Life is good.

you are a lucky man . btw, dont ever let her near me 'cause i will just steal her - no second thoughts

good for you bro!

 

[ilmatross]

you are a lucky man . btw, dont ever let her near me 'cause i will just steal her - no second thoughts

good for you bro!

Thank you. I know. Sometimes I look at her and just trip that I have this beautiful perfect woman that loves me more than anyone else. Me! Of all people me! Haha.

The second she said she loves all the same stuff as me I was like yup you're the one. Asked her out a week later

Youll find one I'm sure just check out videogame/anime/roleplaying sites(where I originally met her years ago) You'd be surprised how many beautiful women in their 20s who love the same stuff we do hang out there.

 

[AGR]

The only thing ideal for me is no cheating,no playing games behind me,no history of this in the past either,there is no budging here,can call me gay or that I have a small weiner,can bully me, it all happened before already,the rest I am open minded,but my looks are fading, probably no one will be attracted to me again,no regrets I stood for what I believed/believe.

 

[DespairSoul]

even though i am not social phobic anymore, i still find it difficult to connect w/ women. they are so "emotionaly" unstable, that you have to be almost perfect in the way that a man says something to them, so as not to upset them and make them hate you.

i could pull that off, but it takes so much effort that i just dont ave the conditioning to do it 24 years of 'relationshp' inactivity will do this to ya

WOMEN - why cant you be more stable and understandable creatures? god! speaking of which, he has a funny sense of humor

for this reason, i think i might be alone forever. which is why i have recently stopped myself from fantasizing too much because that just makes me depressed. i prefer to focus on the things that i want to accomplish in life, my family and the good things i have in life (such as not being social phobic anymore which makes me really happy!

maybe someday ill find someone desperate enough to date me

girls dont want honest romantic respectful sensitive uderstanding intelligent men! thats just BS. if it wanst, id be a mac daddy . what women really want (even if they dont consciosly realize it) is a controlling egotistical ruthless beast (yea i know that all you women reading this might be getting turned on already ). which is cool, but this just really sux for gys like me.

sorry, just wanted to letthis out - its a bit frustrating -_-

Oh noo easyskanking what u say=) Not every woman wants this beast what u are talking about?HUH im schocked how could u how coul you say that i feel offended. Hehe no im alright but i disagree with u at that point because isnt true. Romantic,honest,intelligent thats sound great if u describe your self. U only dont find miss right wich will loves u for who u are. Yes we are emotive but not every woman, some are too coldhearted and so on. Maybe u are frustrated because u didnt had luck in love and now u blame womans? U will find your half believe me. Everyone does have one but of mountain dont come to Mohamet, Mohamet must come to moutain do you ever hear it that?

 

[Phoenixx]

THIS. That's what I want the most in a relationship. Someone who I can feel completely comfortable around. But that's sort of an all-encompassing thing. I'll only feel comfortable if a lot of other things fall into place. However, this is also why I think it's unlikely I'll ever find someone. It's so difficult for me to open up and feel comfortable with anyone. I keep a lot inside. It would take a very special and rare sort of person for me to ever feel comfortable.

^ I feel the same way when it comes to opening up. It's so hard for me, it's always a struggle. Even with those who I've been friends with for a couple years now, they only know half of who I am. I'm constantly shutting myself in, because I'm so afraid of what people will think if they knew exactly who I was inside and out.

 

[EasySkanking]

Oh noo easyskanking what u sayNot every woman wants this beast what u are talking about?HUH im schocked how could u how coul you say that i feel offended. Hehe no im alright but i disagree with u at that point because isnt true. Romantic,honest,intelligent thats sound great if u describe your self. U only dont find miss right wich will loves u for who u are. Yes we are emotive but not every woman, some are too coldhearted and so on. Maybe u are frustrated because u didnt had luck in love and now u blame womans? U will find your half believe me. Everyone does have one but of mountain dont come to Mohamet, Mohamet must come to moutain do you ever hear it that?

lol, no never heard that but it makes sense! Ill believe you with every ounce of my body, but i just dont see how thats possible It seems that most woman are incompatible w/ me. Or should i say i'm incompatible w/ them? i'll keep tryin though we'll see . thank you despair soul, you are very nice!

thx ilmatos, ill check it out =)

 

[WriterChick3]

even though i am not social phobic anymore, i still find it difficult to connect w/ women. they are so "emotionaly" unstable, that you have to be almost perfect in the way that a man says something to them, so as not to upset them and make them hate you.

i could pull that off, but it takes so much effort that i just dont ave the conditioning to do it 24 years of 'relationshp' inactivity will do this to ya

WOMEN - why cant you be more stable and understandable creatures? god! speaking of which, he has a funny sense of humor

for this reason, i think i might be alone forever. which is why i have recently stopped myself from fantasizing too much because that just makes me depressed. i prefer to focus on the things that i want to accomplish in life, my family and the good things i have in life (such as not being social phobic anymore which makes me really happy! )

maybe someday ill find someone desperate enough to date me

girls dont want honest romantic respectful sensitive uderstanding intelligent men! thats just BS. if it wanst, id be a mac daddy . what women really want (even if they dont consciosly realize it) is a controlling egotistical ruthless beast (yea i know that all you women reading this might be getting turned on already ). which is cool, but this just really sux for gys like me.

sorry, just wanted to letthis out - its a bit frustrating -_-

I don't know how I can express how much I strongly dislike men who are controlling and have big egos. And I don't think I don't -- I know it for a fact. I think I'd probably shoot myself in the foot if I were to ever date a guy who was manipulitive, controlling, mouthy, and every negative thing that existed; I find 'beastly' men to be very ... unwantable.
And I know I feel this way for a fact -- like millions of other females do.
I don't know how I can prove I dislike egotistic men and the other types you described.

I really hope nobody took this post the wrong way, by the way.
*Is hoping nobody thinks I'm evil*

 

[BlueDays]

I don't know how I can express how much I strongly dislike men who are controlling and have big egos. And I don't think I don't -- I know it for a fact. I think I'd probably shoot myself in the foot if I were to ever date a guy who was manipulitive, controlling, mouthy, and every negative thing that existed; I find 'beastly' men to be very ... unwantable.
And I know I feel this way for a fact -- like millions of other females do.
I don't know how I can prove I dislike egotistic men and the other types you described.

I really hope nobody took this post the wrong way, by the way.
*Is hoping nobody thinks I'm evil*

I feel the same way WriterChick.
I am beginning to think people make generalizations because it makes them feel better.

 

[Liam17]

even though i am not social phobic anymore, i still find it difficult to connect w/ women. they are so "emotionaly" unstable, that you have to be almost perfect in the way that a man says something to them, so as not to upset them and make them hate you.

i could pull that off, but it takes so much effort that i just dont ave the conditioning to do it 24 years of 'relationshp' inactivity will do this to ya

WOMEN - why cant you be more stable and understandable creatures? god! speaking of which, he has a funny sense of humor

for this reason, i think i might be alone forever. which is why i have recently stopped myself from fantasizing too much because that just makes me depressed. i prefer to focus on the things that i want to accomplish in life, my family and the good things i have in life (such as not being social phobic anymore which makes me really happy! )

maybe someday ill find someone desperate enough to date me

girls dont want honest romantic respectful sensitive uderstanding intelligent men! thats just BS. if it wanst, id be a mac daddy . what women really want (even if they dont consciosly realize it) is a controlling egotistical ruthless beast (yea i know that all you women reading this might be getting turned on already ). which is cool, but this just really sux for gys like me.

sorry, just wanted to letthis out - its a bit frustrating -_-

I agree, you've got to be cocky and good looking. When people say looks don't matter that is bs

So my disadvantages. Not good looking, not very confident.

Advantages(that i'd think so). In a band, play guitar, kind, hard working, respectful etc.

Well theres more advantages but that doesn't mean crap.

Good looking or average looking, treat women like objects, cocky. You've got yourself a gf.

Sadly i know this cause most people i know treat there gf's like it, just for sex etc.

Every girl i'v known it's like "Liam, your a nice guy but........."

Been nice doesn't get you anywhere.

 

[Phoenixx]

WOMEN - why cant you be more stable and understandable creatures? god! speaking of which, he has a funny sense of humor

Lol. Actually, I kinda feel the same way about guys. For the life of me, sometimes I cannot understand them whatsoever.

for this reason, i think i might be alone forever. which is why i have recently stopped myself from fantasizing too much because that just makes me depressed. i prefer to focus on the things that i want to accomplish in life, my family and the good things i have in life (such as not being social phobic anymore which makes me really happy! )

maybe someday ill find someone desperate enough to date me

Aww. I highly doubt you'll be alone forever. I think you'll find someone soon enough.

girls dont want honest romantic respectful sensitive uderstanding intelligent men! thats just BS. if it wanst, id be a mac daddy . what women really want (even if they dont consciosly realize it) is a controlling egotistical ruthless beast (yea i know that all you women reading this might be getting turned on already ). which is cool, but this just really sux for gys like me.

^ Def. couldn't disagree more. I would love to be with an honest, respectful, sensitive, understanding, intelligent guy. Of course, those types are rare to come by when you're a teenager. I could never be with an egotistical, controlling "beast". I think I would rather stay single than to be with a guy like that.

 

[coyote]

I am beginning to think people make generalizations because it makes them feel better.

my vote for Quote of the Month

 

[DespairSoul]

lol, no never heard that but it makes sense! Ill believe you with every ounce of my body, but i just dont see how thats possible It seems that most woman are incompatible w/ me. Or should i say i'm incompatible w/ them? i'll keep tryin though we'll see . thank you despair soul, you are very nice!

thx ilmatos, ill check it out =)

hehe with every ounce?=) I know well, i meet a lot of mans wich i will not even say hello coz how they are acting beastly and cocky, i really dislike with my every ounce of body those creatures brrr. Exactly maybe u meet both of them on your way incompatible with u and u was also incompatible with them. Keep tryin man u are a lion fight for your kingdom


PS: I like it that every ounce i borrow it in my text i hope u dont mind.

 

[EasySkanking]

Keep tryin man u are a lion fight for your kingdom

thank you =) i love this quote btw - it is my vote for quote of the month =)

hmmm, generalizations... theyre exactly just that - generally(and for t most part) true

i know that not all women that i have met like men like i decribed, but most do tend to head in that direction -which means thats theres only a vry small pool of women for men like me. its no biggie, ijust wish it was easier since life has already thrown lots of difficulties my way (such as SA ).

@ilmatross

i thought you were good looking? according to all the posts ive been reading of girls complimenting you? either way, confidence is what will really helpyou in that regard

women are "difficult" (again, for the most part) even for "normal" men - imagine for us im just sayin... its tough!

 

[EasySkanking]

if i was cocky and good looking, idhave about 6 gfs - know what im sayin?

 

[JamesSmith]

I agree, you've got to be cocky and good looking. When people say looks don't matter that is bs

So my disadvantages. Not good looking, not very confident.

Advantages(that i'd think so). In a band, play guitar, kind, hard working, respectful etc.

Well theres more advantages but that doesn't mean crap.

Good looking or average looking, treat women like objects, cocky. You've got yourself a gf.

Sadly i know this cause most people i know treat there gf's like it, just for sex etc.

Every girl i'v known it's like "Liam, your a nice guy but........."

Been nice doesn't get you anywhere.

Forget about all that. The main thing women want is a guy that can open up to her. They want a man that can be himself around her.

 

[ilmatross]

thank you =) i love this quote btw - it is my vote for quote of the month =)

hmmm, generalizations... theyre exactly just that - generally(and for t most part) true

i know that not all women that i have met like men like i decribed, but most do tend to head in that direction -which means thats theres only a vry small pool of women for men like me. its no biggie, ijust wish it was easier since life has already thrown lots of difficulties my way (such as SA ).

@ilmatross

i thought you were good looking? according to all the posts ive been reading of girls complimenting you? either way, confidence is what will really helpyou in that regard

women are "difficult" (again, for the most part) even for "normal" men - imagine for us im just sayin... its tough!

I suppose I am decently good looking, I was just amazed the literal -perfect- woman wanted to date me. This is it, she is it. there's noone better than her. She's the woman I've been looking for since I understood what love was and she'll be the last woman i ever date. she fell in my lap and pursued me.

It's just a magical incomprehensible thing that happened so suddenly and changed my life forever.