personally i probably wouldn't unless i knew them really well, i dont know what she'd be like around her friends, would i fit into the picture of her world or would it just not work at all, i really don't know. alot of people would act based on initial flirtation and it could work out to be a blessing. its a risk, always a risk that go one way or the other ...never an easy decision. there was a girl i really liked but she'd always lean towards the guys with a certain look. short spikey hair and he must live at a gym have a nice car, oh and he must like footy. but if you can have a decent conversation then that doesnt count for much ..
anyway the first girl i ever kissed and such it turned out she had a boyfriend and other boyfriends its just that she flirted with everyone who was a boy and kept secrets ... thats not the best introduction i could have asked for, in fact its possbily the reason why i'm sort of asexual now. i'm open to the possibility of meeting a girl that i click with but from experience i know that girls tend to go for particular sorts of guys. openly very confident (doesn't particularly matter what he says) and obviously quite muscular with a particular hairstyle(short, blonde tips) and at the least a little popular, must like cars and fishing?. again that is cliched but i see this alot with people where i live. i see alot of cliches even though i realise its not how everybody thinks or approaches meeting people at all.