Andria_La La
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i'm so pissed that the guy i would spend my life with thinks of me as his little sister sometimes sometimes*, well he said that a long time ago (just to make me forget about him) yet, but he's always asking me to have sex with him! and he thinks that instead of actually loving him, i just want to be with him cuz i need someone to talk to cuz i don't talk to anyone--i'm here cuz i think i do have SAD but i havent been diagnosed--and i admit i am lonely and needy, and i want attention, but that's not why i want to have his babies!--wat u think? he does make me happy but he's stressing me out by pressuring me to have sex wit him. and he kinda tries to make a deal wit me or something like, i think he actually said, he'd be my Boyfriend if i have sex or he'd promise to do other things if i sleep wit him. it's not that i dont want to but i haven't done IT before, he hasn't either, but i'm just not ready, and i've told him. he's so ****ing desperate my god. i dont know what to do i constantly keep telling him no. since i dont wanna have sex he says i dont love him, is that really FAIR? i was totally hurt when he said that--so wat u guys think i should do? do u agree with him or me? help! please!