How old were you when you lost your virginity?
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gsmax5
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Please tell us the story. I'm dying to know!
i'm 19 & haven't so much as held a guy's hand, let alone lost my virginity. i've kind of gotten used to it by now, but it's lonely sometimes. i am completely untouched...& definitely not by choice. the opportunity has just never come along. hopefully it will before i'm 40.
i feel like i have so much to offer too. i feel things much more stongly than most people, & i feel so much love/affection inside me, i almost feel suffocated by it. i need someone to give it to, or i'm going to explode!::
Sounds exactly the same as my situation and i feel exactly the same way about it.
TheNewZero
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i'm 19 & haven't so much as held a guy's hand, let alone lost my virginity. i've kind of gotten used to it by now, but it's lonely sometimes. i am completely untouched...& definitely not by choice. the opportunity has just never come along. hopefully it will before i'm 40.
i feel like i have so much to offer too. i feel things much more stongly than most people, & i feel so much love/affection inside me, i almost feel suffocated by it. i need someone to give it to, or i'm going to explode!:
Yes I feel the same way. When I love someone I really LOVE someone, you know? I think that I would be okay with not having any friends so long as I had a significant other who loved me very much.
Speaking of being 40 and not having sex, did anyone else get really sad/offended when they watched The 40 Year Old Virgin? I hate movies that pick on losers.
Havn't seen it, but ive been meaning to see it haha. Yeah lots of movies these days do that.
I wouldnt even have to be in a "relationship" with someone to show the affection I have stored up. It could just be someone i found attractive who liked me aswell and showed understanding and was nice. I could show my appreciation and affection for someone in that way even if i had only known them for 5 minuites. Which might seem wierd to some people but thats just how i feel. Just a shame i dont get the chance to do that, and the way society is.
Argamemnon
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I'll be 33 this Summer and still a virgin. It doesn't bother me anymore. I think with age I have realized how trivial this is in life. It's not as if your value as a human being is determined by your sex life. I know I'm a good person, that's all that matters.
Argamemnon
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So your social anxiety isn't or wasn't as bad as mine. I think only people who have severe social anxiety are the ones who remain single forever. I find it fascinating that people can have relationships while suffering from social anxiety.
Argamemnon
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I understand. Now that I think about it, I too could have had a girlfriend when it wasn't as bad. It really became worse and worse over the years. Now it's just impossible...
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I was 19 and am now 30.
I think I just lucked out that a guy (my ex-husband) was interested in me enough to pursue me- and now I can admit that I just latched onto him because I figured that I wouldn't have many other chances, and he seemed like a decent guy.
Nowadays, I can't even seem to get a guy to notice or talk to me (except the teenagers and dirty old men where I work lol- just my luck) so I'm not sure I'll have another serious relationship much less sex.
I think I just lucked out that a guy (my ex-husband) was interested in me enough to pursue me- and now I can admit that I just latched onto him because I figured that I wouldn't have many other chances, and he seemed like a decent guy.
Nowadays, I can't even seem to get a guy to notice or talk to me (except the teenagers and dirty old men where I work lol- just my luck) so I'm not sure I'll have another serious relationship much less sex.
Argamemnon
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I actually used to tell people I know that I'm a virgin, since I don't have complexes whatsoever (I'm very "confident" in that respect), but I noticed that they were trying to make fun of me. I then decided not to be so "open" anymore, lol.
It seems to me that some of those sexually experienced people have more self-esteem issues than me, since they felt uncomfortable when I mentioned my virginity (I'm 32). I was very cool and calm when I revealed it, which seemed to freak them out.
Besides, sticking your "johnson" in someone is a very very trivial matter in life. It's not as if your value as a human being is determined by filling vaginas. Excuse the language
It seems to me that some of those sexually experienced people have more self-esteem issues than me, since they felt uncomfortable when I mentioned my virginity (I'm 32). I was very cool and calm when I revealed it, which seemed to freak them out.
Besides, sticking your "johnson" in someone is a very very trivial matter in life. It's not as if your value as a human being is determined by filling vaginas. Excuse the language
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Smokeringz
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15 im 17 now