Well, at least according to wiki he was professionally critiqued in Contemporary Psychology for his lack of studies on shy women--he hasn't sampled any women at all.Did Gilmartin bother to sample "undiagnosable as love shy" women?
Very very very true, espicially when you don't have a job.Being single isnt to bad.. Good way to save alot of money =)
my perspective on women may be messed up from somewhat of a broken childhood, but i'm missing the value in women or "love".
I love my mother and sisters to death, so i'm not against women. I just don't see the point. My father is a very nice man and he & my mom got divorced, but isn't everyone getting divorced these days? Where did the love go? or was there love in the first place?
I'm religious (christian) which i think is the primary reason i havent found "that somebody", but then I start to group all women in the same category. That category is encompasses women aged (16-24) - thirsty(sexually), money-hungry, status seeking females.
I tried to pick women who dressed more conservatively, yet still attractive in attempts to find the opposite but i havent been proven wrong yet. Every girl that i've associated with want sex. Everytime i've said no, or i'm waiting the relationship dies. So i think i've formed an unfair view of all women...
I think that women are instruments used to reproduce, cook&clean(from time time-to-time) and to fufill all the desires that men build through the years. My father found his sense of freedom, and enjoyment through his children (my sisters & I) so i unfortunately havent been exposed to a woman's worth.
I understand that this thinking isn't polite or may not be correct, it's just my experiences. Can sum1 help?
Perhaps there was no love in any relationship like that, love/romance might just be only for the entire purpose of reproduction, nothing more. It probably was never intended to last in the first place.
I don't know for sure (because I've been single forever), but that theory makes sense.
As for your views on women...
I believe that you don't hate women, but I don't agree or disagree with your views. I don't argue with your opinions because if you experience a divorce, and if you're single your entire life, then your views on the opposite gender will be negative (most likely).
Love is not a fun concept if your single, it's horrible, cruel, and incredible nasty if you've been single for so long (that's how I've experienced it).
Is love a positive or negative emotion? Is it a source of happiness or misery? I do not know.
^ those types do exist
im sure they do, i just cant seem to find any. how does 2 people that spend most of their time at home meet each other? i havent had any luck with dating sites. even one specifically made for geek/nerd types. there is never any hits in my area.
im sure they do, i just cant seem to find any. how does 2 people that spend most of their time at home meet each other? i havent had any luck with dating sites. even one specifically made for geek/nerd types. there is never any hits in my area.
im sure they do, i just cant seem to find any. how does 2 people that spend most of their time at home meet each other? i havent had any luck with dating sites. even one specifically made for geek/nerd types. there is never any hits in my area.
I just wanted to tell you from my experience, sometimes you have to act to get things done.
I've had sex with 5 women, and 4 of them were girls I met online.
3 of them were in the early years of the internet, cirra 1997-2001. But my latest was in 2007, with a girl I met in the Tool chat room. (Yes toolband.net) We talked for 1 day, got her myspace, got her number, she came over, the first night it was all cocaine and sex.
With the others, a lot was the same. In fact, the first time I had sex was me meeting a girl from online. She had her mom drive over, we went and stayed at a hotel, and she said "ok let's do this."
I was not expecting that AT ALL.
Sometimes you have to be another person to get what you want.
Keep in mind, it will never last, but just to be able to experience things you want to in life, be a different person, and all the while, enjoy what's going on.
These are not coincidences. They are happenings of life based on what you're doing. You have it man. All you have to do is talk.
I have been unsuccessful in the last 3 years or so and sort of lost my game, but never lose that hope.
You will get lucky one of these days, and it will happen more than once.
When the opportunity comes, grab it and take it for all it's worth, because it won't last long.
Just realize, other people want exactly what you want.
Be confident, no matter what you're talking about and you'll do well.
As a nerdy girl into video games I actually find that I end up in the friend zone rather than otherwise. Not girly enough maybe?
i really do feel like nice guys finish last.
As a nerdy girl into video games I actually find that I end up in the friend zone rather than otherwise. Not girly enough maybe?
This is so not true. Women love nice men. It's the our social anxiety problems that destroy our dating lives, or should I say lack of dating lives.