How are you feeling?

DeadmanWalking

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Smitten with someone I cant talk to. I hate feeling so weak and powerless in these situations...

You are not powerless; a lot of people are nervous to talk with someone they like. My piece of advice is to take a deep breath and do whatever else you do to calm down and just approach her. You're going to panic, sure, but just carry on and talk with her as you would me or anyone else on here. Make sure you try to establish some form of communication between two of you, like the phone or chatline. You've got what it takes to be a great boyfriend Pips:).
 

JJB

Active member
Today's been the first time I've had an anger attack in about three months or so. Should have expected it by the way I felt this morning. Anyone whose experienced them will know how it feels. Thought I'd learnt to better control it, you let it build up without release and bam! :mad:
 

coyote

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I wish i could. I'm too much of a coward though. Cowards dont deserve to be with anyone

it also doesn't hurt to openly admit to the other person that you are nervous about talking to them

some women actually find that endearing

if nothing else, she'll appreciate your honesty
 

DeadmanWalking

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I wish i could. I'm too much of a coward though. Cowards dont deserve to be with anyone

What makes a coward unworthy of someone? Just because you can't approach someone? That's a pathetic reason to call someone "unworthy" and you know it! Everyone deserves to be loved, including you! Just believe that you can and you can!
 

Agent_Violet

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Lol I know right. And to top it off she's incredibly strange. And for some reason I love strange women. I guess because I'm strange as hell too. Like when one of the students broke a slide on a microscope she got all excited and grabbed it saying "sweet! Im gonna add this to the others so I can finish that chandelier Im making!" Everyone else was like "freakin weirdo" but in my head I was like "thats soooo CUTE" >.< All the science professors are strange though so maybe I have that to look forward to if I stay on this path

she sounds like she just has a really cool sense of humor:) i like her already!

maybe when you're not her student anymore you can ask her if she'd like to go get some dinner sometime...
 

Blabla..

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Lol I know right. And to top it off she's incredibly strange. And for some reason I love strange women. I guess because I'm strange as hell too. Like when one of the students broke a slide on a microscope she got all excited and grabbed it saying "sweet! Im gonna add this to the others so I can finish that chandelier Im making!" Everyone else was like "freakin weirdo" but in my head I was like "thats soooo CUTE" >.< All the science professors are strange though so maybe I have that to look forward to if I stay on this path

awesome Pips :D , you need to keep us updated on that one , she does sound cool indeed , a chandelier made out of broken microscope slides , awesome
 

DeadmanWalking

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I appreciate the support everyone. Well even if I did find the balls to say something I dont think I'm technically allowed to since she's my teacher and all ::p: I think this little crush started mostly because she's funny, smart and the only woman close to my age I actually interact with outside the internet.

Make a move or something, my compadre:D! As a college student, she's a lot closer in age to you than if you were in high school or something! Try it and see it through to the end! Some teacher-student relationships have been successful;)!
 

Piece_By_Piece

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Oh, I see there are other people who have crushes on their teachers. I'm 17 and I've got a crush (actually quite a lot more than that) on my math teacher for a year now. He's 20 years older than me. First I took it as a joke and kind of laughed at myself but it turned out to be an obsession. He's not at our school ATM, but he's coming back. He of course is a married man and all, but it just seems impossible for me to bury my feelings.
 

Agent_Violet

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Oh, I see there are other people who have crushes on their teachers. I'm 17 and I've got a crush (actually quite a lot more than that) on my math teacher for a year now. He's 20 years older than me. First I took it as a joke and kind of laughed at myself but it turned out to be an obsession. He's not at our school ATM, but he's coming back. He of course is a married man and all, but it just seems impossible for me to bury my feelings.

i think it's common to have a crush on a teacher. just be careful he doesn't attempt to return the feelings bc that's just wrong if you're only 17.
 

coyote

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Oh, I see there are other people who have crushes on their teachers. I'm 17 and I've got a crush (actually quite a lot more than that) on my math teacher for a year now. He's 20 years older than me. First I took it as a joke and kind of laughed at myself but it turned out to be an obsession. He's not at our school ATM, but he's coming back. He of course is a married man and all, but it just seems impossible for me to bury my feelings.

better to bury your feelings than wind up getting hurt - or having him wind up in jail
 

Piece_By_Piece

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better to bury your feelings than wind up getting hurt - or having him wind up in jail

I probably didn't explain it too well... But I'm already hurt by this. He doesn't know anything about this, and I'm not planning on ever letting him know, since it wouldn't do anything good. I want all the best for him, I want him to be happy and all but I just can't forget.
 

Agent_Violet

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I probably didn't explain it too well... But I'm already hurt by this. He doesn't know anything about this, and I'm not planning on ever letting him know, since it wouldn't do anything good. I want all the best for him, I want him to be happy and all but I just can't forget.

i had a crush like that once...it was with an employer of mine when i was 17. he was in his 30's and married. i wasn't able to let it go and finally talked to him about it. We ended up having an affair and i ended up getting hurt really bad emotionally.

I can totally sympathize with how you're feeling. I hope it fades away for you soon so you can start feeling better.
 

Piece_By_Piece

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I find it a bit silly that it has to be turned over when a girl has a crush on a teacher, its "oh watch your back and yadayda" but when it's the boy liking the teacher it's a whole different story. I agree that she's 17 and shouldn't try anything because she's sstill a kid, but not every man is rotten and would do harm.

I completely agree with you. But it's innocent, isn't it? Having a crush on your teacher. As long as nothing happens.
 

Phoenixx

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Relieved! Sooo relieved. I survived, and managed to actually get my last two labs back with an 85 and a 100. :) About time my extra work is starting to pay off. I just hope the test I get back tomorrow is just as good.
 

MrJones

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Relieved! Sooo relieved. I survived, and managed to actually get my last two labs back with an 85 and a 100. :) About time my extra work is starting to pay off. I just hope the test I get back tomorrow is just as good.
Awesome news!! Congratulations Phoenixx :)
ANd good luck for tomorrow!
 
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