How are you feeling?

Deus_Ex_Lemur

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Like I have absolutely no idea where I am going.

I have a compass if you need one... or maybe a GPS these days... :)

I feel you, a lot. (what you mean, I'm not touching you)

I just have no direction atm I mean I have a heading, a direction I want to head, but getting there... it's murky. Cliche as it sounds, it is one step at a time, day at a time, etc. Make some goals, short term first, build up. Helps for me saying something, both social and professional I want to accomplish in 5 or so years. That seems like enough breathing room to be possible, tho those dang years fly towards ya at lightspeed. :)
 

simpsons2007

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They STILL haven't replied. So gutless. As soon as I pluck up the courage to, I'm definitely phoning them.
I'm fed up of people hiding behind e-mails and just palming people off as though they don't matter.

I think you should phone them sooner rather than later because the longer you put it off the more your going to think about it and get yourself all worked up over it.
 

CZi

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They STILL haven't replied. So gutless. As soon as I pluck up the courage to, I'm definitely phoning them.
I'm fed up of people hiding behind e-mails and just palming people off as though they don't matter.

Yeah that's honestly unprofessional on their part considering you were one of four final applicants. The least they could have done was send a formal letter, with an applicable reason for not being hired, if not a courtesy call. That's like the business equivalent of breaking up over text/email lol. Keep your chin up and you'll find a place better suited for ya!

Me, my day is just starting on this side of the pond! So far so good. :]
 

Earthbound_Misfit

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I need to get this off my chest. I am overwhelmed. I spent 6 days in the woods near Inchelium. It was beautiful and relaxing and soothing but now that I am back in the city... I can't get it together. I was able to completely drop my guard for almost a week and now i feel raw... almost like I've been rubbed with emotional sandpaper. **sigh**
 

Newtype

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For a year, I've been having nightmares about school almost every night. When I had school, I thought it was because I was really stressed about school, but now I've been in vacation for weeks and I still have the nightmares. Most of the time, they're about me really not being ready for a test or having too many things to do in so little time. I don't understand...
 

Deus_Ex_Lemur

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Good... For now. I'm afraid that this good feeling isn't going to last long. Good feelings never do. :\

The flip side is neither do the bad ones, we just let them linger longer than they have a right to. =) But I feel ya (again, NOT meaning touching you! =D

But it's really a matter of I don't know - trying to hold onto the good feelings, or not letting the bad ones get any more leverage than the good ones.
 

Deus_Ex_Lemur

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For a year, I've been having nightmares about school almost every night. When I had school, I thought it was because I was really stressed about school, but now I've been in vacation for weeks and I still have the nightmares. Most of the time, they're about me really not being ready for a test or having too many things to do in so little time. I don't understand...

WOW - I've had this too - well, esp on vacation anyways - about getting late to class or not being ready or really screwing the pooch. (not having sexual relations with a doggy, but messing up the situation badly). Is school coming close to an end for you? I had this worse this last year knowing I was graduating.
 

Deus_Ex_Lemur

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No, I'm starting university in a month.

Ah and when I transferred I had same dreams, totally normal imo ... it's a big step, you have pressure not just academically but socially too, things you WANT to do... it's weighing on mind, it'll come out subconsciously through dreams =)
 
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