How are you feeling?

IGotSeoul

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Going out in a few minutes. : S ... I don't want to do it, but I have to, you see it was my decision to go out every Tuesday night and I'm determined to do it. I know I'll feel great when it's over, and I'll be pleased that I did it, but right at this moment I feel dreadful about it and slightly, just slightly nauseous.

Goodbye! :l Have a nice evening/morning/afternoon everyone.

Good luck James, that's a wonderful plan. I hope all goes well.
 

Niteowl

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Thanks! : ) It's over now - I'm not going next week, which I'm thankful for, but I got through it without any emotional scarring and - as they say - what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. More social experience is just what I need, even though a part of me is still determined that I don't want it. It will come round to my way of thinking.

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Nanita

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Hey Nanita. Why do you have to buy boxes? /is confused/ Nobody here ever buys boxes, you just go to a store and ask, some stores even have extra old boxes at the entry/exit and you can just take... If you're shy, you can ask someone else to do that...

YAY for moving to new appartment! It can be stressful, I know. So just RELAX and take it easy... It doesn't have to go so perfect or so quickly, just 'survive' it!!

Do you know anyone who can fix your tire for free? (Male relatives, friends, neighbours come to mind...) Even perfect strangers may be willing to help if you ask nicely. (And maybe offer to buy a beer or cook or bake'em something? - doesn't have to be now if you're broke, maybe after you move/recieve some money?)

YAY for a friend visiting too! I know that can be stressful too!! Can you simplify it?
If they can't stay with you, recommend hospitalityclub.org or couchsurfing or a hostel or such to them and just suggest a meetup or a few? (In your area, or THEY can see to transport/entertainment costs and invite YOU if they want?)

Lol... boxes... I can´t find any free boxes that are good enough to hold heavy stuff... Yeah we normally buy moving boxes here actually...
I don´t know anybody who can help me fix the bike... I can´t ask some stranger... me opening my mouth to speak...I just...no, that would definitely never happen...
The friend that is visiting, well the point of him visiting is so we can get to know each other better, so... I just hope it will go well.
 
I feel very drained and tired. Whenever I close my eyes my head just starts racing like mad.. Brains need on/off switches, that would be really convenient.
 

Feathers

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Lol... boxes... I can´t find any free boxes that are good enough to hold heavy stuff... Yeah we normally buy moving boxes here actually...
I don´t know anybody who can help me fix the bike... I can´t ask some stranger... me opening my mouth to speak...I just...no, that would definitely never happen...
The friend that is visiting, well the point of him visiting is so we can get to know each other better, so... I just hope it will go well.

Well, maybe the friend can fix your bike then? :) Or ask a stranger, hehe... It's easier if 2 ppl are together, even if they're both socially phobic to some extent!! (And yes this/similar situation actually happened and we got offers to fix the tire from a stranger lol!! We did ask! And we were both terrified!! lol!)

Getting to know someone can be scary, hope it goes well!! You can get to know each other in cheap or free ways too, you can maybe hitchhike or walk/hike... and explore 'free wonders of your town'!! The friend could even help you move!! :)

There are ideas what to do for free online... You are not 'entertainment director' or 'tourist board member' and they came to get to know YOU not explore the wonders of your country for free on your account!! (They can get a temp job if they need some money while they're in your country too, someone I know does this when he travels...)
 

Deus_Ex_Lemur

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Lol... boxes... I can´t find any free boxes that are good enough to hold heavy stuff... Yeah we normally buy moving boxes here actually...
I don´t know anybody who can help me fix the bike... I can´t ask some stranger... me opening my mouth to speak...I just...no, that would definitely never happen...
The friend that is visiting, well the point of him visiting is so we can get to know each other better, so... I just hope it will go well.

If that's the point - then don't worry about a thing! (hah lovely easy thing to just say =D But if he's a good friend or more you'll be the most important attraction on his trip - as Feathers said good free stuff to do, I'm sure things will go well! :D Once he's there and ice is broken it'll go well, enjoy!
 

Phoenixx

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What's he doing? Is he younger? I think it's a rule somewhere where your sibling is annoying and makes you pull hairs out.
^ Lol, yes I believe there is a rule like that. And surprisingly my brother is older, but only by a year. It's just I get so sick of living with him and cleaning up after him. He has a job, so he works most of the day. But even when he's home, he makes a mess. When he's off on the weekends, he doesn't do anything but, again, make a mess. He complains when dinner isn't ready and he expects my mother to do his laundry when he's completely capable of doing it himself. He basically expects everyone to do stuff for him. It just aggravates me so incredibly much.
 

Rembrandt Broam

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I'm feeling OK-ish. Woke up this morning in a very bad mood, and that just got gradually worse throughout the day. I've felt a lot better this evening though.
 
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