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JosephG

Well-known member
feel annoyed. My friend is being so so selfish. He lives like 5 minutes from me and won't drop off something I need especially as he could go past my house on his way to somewhere he's going. I asked him and he responded with "are you ****ing messing". Like I've asked him to do something that would require some great effort.
I'd easily do the same for him or anyone else. Maybe it is I who is too selfless sometimes?
Don't think me and him will speak for a while. He can't accept that he's in the wrong a lot.... but I suppose I can be like that.
Hate this petty ****.
 

gazelle

Well-known member
feel annoyed. My friend is being so so selfish. He lives like 5 minutes from me and won't drop off something I need especially as he could go past my house on his way to somewhere he's going. I asked him and he responded with "are you ****ing messing". Like I've asked him to do something that would require some great effort.
I'd easily do the same for him or anyone else. Maybe it is I who is too selfless sometimes?
Don't think me and him will speak for a while. He can't accept that he's in the wrong a lot.... but I suppose I can be like that.
Hate this petty ****.

I can relate pretty much with you on this one! One of my best friends in high school used to be pretty much like what you described about your friend and get on my nerves from times to times with these kinds of behaviors!
From experience I can tell that despite the fact that I sometimes literally felt like screaming in her face and telling her what a snob she is ! I would just become cold with her for a while and not call her anymore and then she would notice herself and call everyday and that would do the best.

Helping others is never being selfless as you mentioned. Don’t let these people put influence on you.
You never lose anything out of helping others.
 

Tato

New member
I can relate pretty much with you on this one! One of my best friends in high school used to be pretty much like what you described about your friend and get on my nerves from times to times with these kinds of behaviors!
From experience I can tell that despite the fact that I sometimes literally felt like screaming in her face and telling her what a snob she is ! I would just become cold with her for a while and not call her anymore and then she would notice herself and call everyday and that would do the best.

Helping others is never being selfless as you mentioned. Don’t let these people put influence on you.
You never lose anything out of helping others.

Wow doesn't seem like the kind of person I would want to be my best friend...
 
I feel silly. All it takes is a few words and that is all I'll be thinking about. I wonder if my words ever have the same effect?

Yes.

Maybe not recently, maybe not now, maybe not for a while. Now and again you will have profoundly insightful words to share.

Typed, written or spoken. Advice, opinion or statement.

We must try and be ready for the multitude of ways others receive these words. Hopeful, hateful or acceptance.

It is silly to wonder consistently upon words that have been released without fruition. It has been done. Move on to repair, rephrase or leave it be.
 

dean01

Well-known member
im not a happy bunny today, i try and i try and i try somemore but nothing is helping. i have a dream that one day ile wake up and its all gone but even thats depressing me today, i just wish it would go away.
 
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Beatrice

Guest
im not a happy bunny today, i try and i try and i try somemore but nothing is helping. i have a dream that one day ile wake up and its all gone but even thats depressing me today, i just wish it would go away.

I feel this way a lot.
 

dottie

Well-known member
I'm going to a medical interview in a few days to explain why I shouldn't be a paramilitary officer. Wish me luck!

wait! usually interviews are to convince them why you should be something. confused. why are you trying to convince them you shouldn't be a paramilitary officer? SA? best of luck and let us know how it goes!
 

planemo

Well-known member
sorry to hear that - the weather is bad here again, too

I'm having a hard time getting through the day, myself

overwhelmed by anxiety and depression

i really hate this feeling

Looks like we're having an early winter here. ::(:

Oh yeah i know the feeling. Best wishes mate, I hope your day gets better. :)
 

dean01

Well-known member
not really sure how im feeling today, had nausea, chest pains and felt sick all day. then i came on here and felt a wave of calm surge through me and i feel much more at ease.
 
I finally got out and planted my flowers. It gave me a sense of accomplishment. Hopefully it will warm up a little so they don't die. Sunshine has been a rarity up until the last couple of days.
 
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Beatrice

Guest
Not sure where I am emotionally.... drifting, I guess. Half peace half not. Strange. But I'm not complaining, could be far worse. Just wish I could feel completely content and peaceful for once.
 
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