How are you feeling?
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gummybear22
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^ why do you think you're losing another friend?
InvisaLady
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My BF just dumped me, right when all was going so good and he was super mean about it too.
MollyBeGood
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How can people be so cruel to one another as to be mean to someone when they break-up with them? :bat:
I am so sorry, hun *Hugs*
that loser was a waste of your time.:thumbdown:
:sad: so sorry invisa *big hugs to you*
sullyS25
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I am thinking that maybe I am not my thoughts or my emotions.
That some days I wake up anxious as hell and some days I wake up calm as well. That thoughts and emotions come and go like the clouds in the sky. I feel that if I can observe the coming and going of these thoughts from a non-judgemental place that they can't control me like they have in the past. I feel like there is the constant mental chatter going through my head that fuels my emotions and then there is my higher self that is observing those thoughts and emotions without attaching to them.
I feel at peace.
That some days I wake up anxious as hell and some days I wake up calm as well. That thoughts and emotions come and go like the clouds in the sky. I feel that if I can observe the coming and going of these thoughts from a non-judgemental place that they can't control me like they have in the past. I feel like there is the constant mental chatter going through my head that fuels my emotions and then there is my higher self that is observing those thoughts and emotions without attaching to them.
I feel at peace.
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gummybear22
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have had a stomachache for several hours
MikeyC
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Wow, I thought everything was going great with you two. You seemed to be hitting it off and moving along with the relationship. What happened at the end? How was he mean?
gummybear22
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^ "pathetic for a man" o_0 nO. guys can be emotional too, they've got brains and feelings and should feel freer to let out stuff, instead of holding in b/c society tells everyone that guys shouldn't show how they feel if it's sadness.
try relaxing and tears might come out. you sound like you might be tense.
try relaxing and tears might come out. you sound like you might be tense.
MikeyC
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Well...now that we've got that sexism out of the way, what has happened that makes you think that?
All they think about is sleeping with you. Its always I want to XYZ you. And trust me I am not even good looking, actually kind of on the heavy side. And they take advantage of you badly esp. when they know you are lonely or vulnerable.
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^ I don't think it's fair to say all men are like that. And as a woman, I can say that I have looked at a man and only thought about sex. 
Do you know these particular men? Maybe they are lonely as well and the only way they know how to express their interest is in flirty way. Just throwing some alternate ideas out there.
I have a massive headache that my Tylenol PM isn't helping with.
Tomorrow, weather permitting, is my uncle's funeral. I know it's a stupid and obvious thing to say, but I'm really not looking forward to it.
Do you know these particular men? Maybe they are lonely as well and the only way they know how to express their interest is in flirty way. Just throwing some alternate ideas out there.I have a massive headache that my Tylenol PM isn't helping with.
Tomorrow, weather permitting, is my uncle's funeral. I know it's a stupid and obvious thing to say, but I'm really not looking forward to it.
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I don't think they are lonely they have a full social life. Well one I texted last night said he just thought of sex mostly talking to me again. He is looking for someone for that purpose only nothing else. God this is embarresing talking about. We used to be together abit then I called it off. Anyway I am just bumped out. Guys either act this way with me, or they drop quickly like flies after a few dates because I am boring, never want to meet their friends to hang out etc.
Hope your headache gets better. Sorry to hear about your uncle. I don't quite like funerals either they make me uncomfortable.
Hope your headache gets better. Sorry to hear about your uncle. I don't quite like funerals either they make me uncomfortable.
dottie
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MikeyC
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Again, you are being exceptionally sexist and general. I'm not saying men don't do this, but to put every single guy under this umbrella is not cool.
I'm sorry. I hope it goes well for you.