How are you feeling?

Invisibleman

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Just got back from a weekend rugby tournament to another province. A wild weekend of drinking,walking in on another teammate sleeping with a girl, and playing a morning match with over half of the team hungover and still managing to win::p:
 
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MikeyC

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Nice, how many albums do you have?? what kind of music do you guys play? What do you play?? Do you have old stuff online?

Do you guys play live? Its great u have a band even with SA and you can handle that stuff
I do get extremely nervous on stage, but once I start playing it dissipates somewhat. I just focus on what I have to play rather than the eyes of the crowd on me.

Our band name is Bistu, so there's a few videos of us on YouTube. This will be our 3rd album, although I joined the band half-way through the 2nd album.

Yesterday I was full of confidence and joy and loving life, today I feel like a big ball of ****. PMT is the cause of both of these extremes.
I'm sorry you felt this way, twiggle. I hope you feel better.

I feel like crying. I just found out my friend has a huge problem and I can't help him much.
Oh, that's no good, Srijita. You're always the first to help, I can see that, but sometimes there's not much more you can do. Just be there for your friend when he wants to chat and I'm positive he will appreciate that.

Wow! I'm starting to see that having these seizures could have been one of the greatest things to have happened to me, minus the pain and suffer but it's the complete outlook im looking at. Ever since they happened, I've had to quit smoking and drinking completely and to be honest I was really bummed out at first but now I'm starting to see the positives. After being home for a few days, I've passed the temptations test where everyone in my house both smokes and drinks but I won't even consider a puff or a sip because all I see is me breaking into a seizure after taking one sip of beer, and that's enough to turn me off from it lol. But I'm just so much more clear headed, less anxious and find myself not sitting in my room alone. Plus my lungs feel absolutely amazing!!!! I can't wait to see how much my stamina has improved once I can hop back on the bike. Plus I'm just thinking of all the money I will save, holy moly!!!!! Lots!!!!
Very good, Drummer! I've given up the alcohol (well, almost), as well. Your body is definitely going to thank you. :)
 
Just found out my grandmother died.

As soon as I heard it I kind of went into a mini shock. I knew it was going to happen sometime in the next few years, but still... You can never be that prepared. I wasn't that close to her but she did play a major part in my life growing up, good and bad times both.

The strange thing is I feel more panicked and shocked than sad. The finality of death scares me. I think the sadness will set in later, but right now I just feel kind of sick to my stomach.

And for some reason I keep having the urge to laugh, which makes me feel like a horrible person. It's a nervous thing I think, because my hands are shaking and I feel sick, but I keep feeling giggly o_O It's not funny at all and I don't find it humorous. Someone tell me it's my nerves...
 

WeirdyMcGee

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And for some reason I keep having the urge to laugh, which makes me feel like a horrible person. It's a nervous thing I think, because my hands are shaking and I feel sick, but I keep feeling giggly o_O It's not funny at all and I don't find it humorous. Someone tell me it's my nerves...
I laugh when I'm sad because I'm sick of crying.
Life is full of strange occurrences- full of irony; I think it's okay to laugh.

You feel bad.
You're shocked.
It's all understandable-- it may take awhile for it to really hit you.
Even when I was looking at my grandfather's body in the hospital, it hadn't hit me that he was gone. It's taken about a year. I miss him-- but memories are what keeps them alive in your mind.
 
I laugh when I'm sad because I'm sick of crying.
Life is full of strange occurrences- full of irony; I think it's okay to laugh.

You feel bad.
You're shocked.
It's all understandable-- it may take awhile for it to really hit you.
Even when I was looking at my grandfather's body in the hospital, it hadn't hit me that he was gone. It's taken about a year. I miss him-- but memories are what keeps them alive in your mind.

Thank you.

I am dreading the funeral though because now I have to call my grandfather, who I have no contact with because he is an awful person (and he is angry about that). It's going to be soooooooooooooooo incredibly awkward. And then I'll have to see him there. The whole thing just seems like hell for a socially awkward person, speaking to someone you are at odds with, while there are heavy emotions involved. I'm really really dreading it ::(:
 

WeirdyMcGee

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The whole thing just seems like hell for a socially awkward person, speaking to someone you are at odds with, while there are heavy emotions involved. I'm really really dreading it ::(:

ah, yes... well that's always something-- one of the many things you have to deal with...
Just keep in mind, it's only temporary and the things people say when they are upset are often exaggerations and not necessarily true.

You'll get through it, Tally...
The forum will always be here.
 

coyote

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So this guy I've met a couple of times sends me a PM on FB, quite out of the blue. After the small 'hey how are u?' talk we get to, 'so your friend who was out with you the other night, I've not seen her before, who is she?'
Mate, if you think my friend is hot and want to know more about her, just say so right away instead of making me think for a moment you actually wanted to see how I was.

Grumble grumble.

wow, what a tool

sorry (apologizing for all men who aren't such idiots)
 

DeadmanWalking

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So this guy I've met a couple of times sends me a PM on FB, quite out of the blue. After the small 'hey how are u?' talk we get to, 'so your friend who was out with you the other night, I've not seen her before, who is she?'
Mate, if you think my friend is hot and want to know more about her, just say so right away instead of making me think for a moment you actually wanted to see how I was.

Grumble grumble.

Sorry about that twiggle::(:.

To make up for it, how about you and I go to your favorite restaurant and you can order whatever you want;)? It'll be my treat:). We can talk about whatever you want to.
 
So this guy I've met a couple of times sends me a PM on FB, quite out of the blue. After the small 'hey how are u?' talk we get to, 'so your friend who was out with you the other night, I've not seen her before, who is she?'
Mate, if you think my friend is hot and want to know more about her, just say so right away instead of making me think for a moment you actually wanted to see how I was.

Grumble grumble.

Oh god I hate that nonsense.

I had something... sort of similar (but not really) happen to me once. A guy sent me a message on Facebook asking how I was, and it was out of nowhere, really. I had met him once, he is a friend of my cousin. We had some small talk and then he ended up saying, "Are you busy tomorrow?" Wayyyyy too soon, buddy. haha. Tomorrow!?

That was a red flag in and of itself, but I ended up continuing the conversation out of curiosity. Eventually he ended up asking me, "So, you going to spend the weekend at my place?" I told him I don't do that sort of thing and that put an end to the conversation pretty quickly :D
 

WeirdyMcGee

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like poop on toast.

Beginning to get concerned about my leg problem.
If it's still moving up and painful tomorrow, I guess I'll have to have an adventure in the emergency room.
 

WeirdyMcGee

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Earlier my mom told me to get a life::(:

I suppose she meant it in one of those; 'I worry about you and think you should do what I would be doing if I were you' type of things and not as an insult...?

Although it's still pretty rude.
Such careless words can hurt alot.
 
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