chibiXphantom
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betrayed, confused, hurt, and on the brink of a breakdown...
How are you feeling?
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DeadmanWalking
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What's wrong? I hope that you feel better.
MikeyC
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Boyfriend?
chibiXphantom
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cheated on. have evidence. boyfriend continues to deny it. dont know what to believe anymore.
MikeyC
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I think you should dump his ass. You're better than that.
chibiXphantom
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idk..
ugh i need to stop complaining so much. sorry people
ugh i need to stop complaining so much. sorry people
MikeyC
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Don't be sorry. Being cheated on is not good. If you have evidence and your boyfriend is denying it, obviously it means he can't be trusted. You don't have to deal with that.
DeadmanWalking
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Going along with what Mikey said, if you have definite evidence of him cheating on you, then, yes, leave him. You don't deserve that. If he's cheating on you, then he'll most definitely deny it. Trust yourself and don't put up with stuff like that.
chibiXphantom
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i just... dont know what to do
SilentBird
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I feel as if I'm not here.
he is using the shaggy defense:
It Wasn't Me by Shaggy feat RikRok - YouTube
sorry I couldnt resist,just trying to bring some laughter,if it is distateful just tell me.
It Wasn't Me by Shaggy feat RikRok - YouTube
sorry I couldnt resist,just trying to bring some laughter,if it is distateful just tell me.
Srijita52
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I'm sorry. Its awful what he did.
DeadmanWalking
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If you thought a friend were being cheated on, what would you advise her to do? Try thinking of it like that? You love him so you don't want to lose him. However, you should only keep someone around if they want to. If he wants to go and mess around, then that's his perogative, but don't let yourself get caught up in that.
chibiXphantom
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i should just not date anymore.
I've been there. He might continue to deny it until his dying breath. Doesn't mean it didn't happen! People are like that, and you almost wonder if they really believe they didn't do it, or that it somehow didn't count.
Of course you should move on. I think you are being way too hard on yourself when you say you shouldn't date anymore. It's not your fault that he chose to do this to you. And there are good people out there who won't cheat. You deserve one of those people.
Srijita52
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Don't be so hard on yourself. I agree with Marie it was not your fault that he cheated. I'm sure you'll find nicer people than him.
chibiXphantom
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i just dont trust guys anymore. every guy ive ever dated has cheated on me. some multiple times.
one guy even pretended to date me for a while cause i was depressed
one guy even pretended to date me for a while cause i was depressed
Srijita52
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I'm glad you're feeling better. What do you mean by artificially induced?Sooooo good in comparison to how I've been feeling the past few weeks. But it is artificially-induced, unfortunately. And not something I will be able to experience... probably ever again :: Oh how I wish...
It's a nice break though while it lasts.
Srijita52
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I'm sorry you went through that, some people can be real jerks. Maybe you do need a break for a while.