Hi everyone,
I am a clinical psychologist and researcher at Macquarie University. I think it's great that so many of you are posting on this forum and supporting each other.
Within the Centre for Emotional Health at Macquarie University (Sydney) we have a research clinic where we are trying to learn more about social anxiety, and how best to help people who experience it. Many of you have spoken openly (and bravely!) about the loneliness you experience, and the sense that life is passing you by. One of the goals of our clinic is to develop treatment programs to help people develop practical skills and strategies to cope with their anxiety, so they are able to get out and do the things they want to do with their life. We offer group treatments, which our clients find really beneficial as they have the opportunity to meet other people with similar concerns, and practice the skills with each other while they are learning them.
Our treatments are based on cognitive behavioural therapy, and so far our results have been very promising! Our research shows us that after treatment, people experience less symptoms of social anxiety (e.g. panicky feelings, shaking, blushing, sweating, mind blanks, dwelling on negative thoughts), and have been able to make significant improvements to their quality of life (things like finding a new job, getting back to study, or joining a sporting or social group). Our clients often report feeling more self confident and happier in their own skin.
I think it is really important that people are aware that there are steps you can take to get help for social anxiety. As some of you have already commented, being proactive is important! It takes a lot of courage to take that first step, but from what I have seen from my clients, it is definitely worth it. Our treatment programs are supported by our research funding, so we are able to offer them at very low cost to you (and some programs are free).
If you want to find out more about our programs, you can visit our website:
http://www.psy.mq.edu.au/CEH/muaru.html
Phone us on 9850 8711, or email me at
[email protected]
Wishing you all the best!
-Lexine