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What do you all think? Did I let him go too far? Did I come off as "easy" despite being rather shy about it all?
Don't buy into the sexphobic mania of our puritanicalism infested society.
If you had wanton sex with him on the first date it wouldn't be "too far". Don't buy into the sexphobic mania of our puritanicalism infested society.
I messaged a new guy on PoF. (Yes, I messaged a guy, and not the other way around. Shocking.) Turns out we go to the same school, and we hung out briefly before classes this past Tuesday and Thursday. Last night was pretty much our first date.
Now, I don't think this guy suffers from SA. At least, he certainly doesn't act like he does. So I wasn't too surprised when we were sitting in his car and he put his arm around me, and slowly pulled me into a kiss. It kind of turned into a makeout session for a while, though. By "a while" I mean a few hours. *Blush* He seemed to get rather "physical" with me during it, such as groping me and biting my neck.
As much as I enjoyed it all, I keep wondering if I let him go a little too far. I told him it was my first kiss, and he seemed rather shocked about it. Still, part of me just wonders if it was a bad thing to make out on the first date. It also makes me nervous that he might try to pressure me into going further than that, which is not happening for quite a few reasons. I don't think he will try to pressure me, though, since whenever he did things like biting my neck, he asked if I liked it, and if not, he would stop.
What do you all think? Did I let him go too far? Did I come off as "easy" despite being rather shy about it all?
I'm happy for you, and jealous of you at the same time.... (jealous because I am still waiting for my first kiss.... :: )