OceanMist
Well-known member
I bring this up because it's so common in these forums for people to answer your problem with "find yourself" type answers.
That's such a condescending way of trying to help someone.
You are implying that there is so much wrong with me that I need to become a better person.
There is something wrong with me, I'm shy, but I gotta tell you, besides that, I'm a pretty freaking good person.
A lot of other people on these forums are good people. They don't need to find themselves!
What we do need to do is find a way to connect with other people and find some friends and intimate relationships. That's not finding yourself....it's finding other people.
Instead of focusing on us, we need to focus more on others.
Just a rant, let me know what you think about this with your feedback. Especially common users of this forum.
That's such a condescending way of trying to help someone.
You are implying that there is so much wrong with me that I need to become a better person.
There is something wrong with me, I'm shy, but I gotta tell you, besides that, I'm a pretty freaking good person.
A lot of other people on these forums are good people. They don't need to find themselves!
What we do need to do is find a way to connect with other people and find some friends and intimate relationships. That's not finding yourself....it's finding other people.
Instead of focusing on us, we need to focus more on others.
Just a rant, let me know what you think about this with your feedback. Especially common users of this forum.